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Trying since long:i need help

2005-07-26

Name: i i am married for 1.5 years...Still am scared of sex i dont know why.....moreover i was supposed to get my cycle on may14 but till today no sign oof it ..i have done my urine test but was -ve.
i am desperately in need of ur help

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2005-07-27

Name: Latha
Subject:

Hi I

Hi,

The key is to \";RELAX\";. You have to be relaxed and not tensed. I, try to relax next time. If it's not working, you may have to think about going to sexologist, or a psychologist.
Best of Luck,
Love,
Latha

2005-07-27

Name: i
Subject:

please dear

Am really thankful for ur supporting & loving words..Thanks sunshine,latha,anupama..
TO be frank i dont know the reason..whenever we r doing it i feel its gonna pain & just squeeze off.
indeed my husband is loving & patinet & that makes me feel really bad..
i need ur suggestion....Please..............
am experiencing no discomfort except have put on weight..i dont know why....

2005-07-26

Name: Sunshine
Subject:

hi I

hi,
I agree with Latha and Anupama, go and check out why u'r missing u'r period.
And honey, what exactly are u fearing? You have to share that and find out the root of u'r fear and remove it from there.
I think u'r hubby must be a patient guy if after 1.5 years u'r still scared, and he's with u...
Fear is normal to an extent.
In case u feel this as persistent, would suggest that u also meet a sexologist, or a psychologist.
Please note, I am not suggesting that something is mentally wrong with u. I hope u understand that. Perhaps there is a trauma in your past that is hindering u. I am only suggesting these options so that someone can help u over come u'r fear.
Wish u all the best.
With love,
Sunshine

2005-07-26

Name: Anupama
Subject:

Hi,
If this is the first time you skipped your period it's time honey to discuss with the doctor.
Why you are scared you didn't mention the exact reason. What i can say do some google search according to your situation.
Bye,
Anupama

2005-07-26

Name: Latha
Subject:

Hi,

Since you have missed your period for 2 months with -ve HPT, i'd suggest you go to the doctor. Or if you are in the US, you can make a toll free call to
1-800-nurse and ask them what to do.
Are you experiencing any pain, that could be one of the reasons for your fear.
Best of luck,
Latha

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