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my husband is an engineer and we have married 8 months before.he was a gud and nice to me always but sum time make laugh at me .he always make me hopeless.whenever i hug him he push me out and never allow me to touch him or kis him.even he also dont do that with me.at night during sex he only use to touch me and after that leave me and even make laugh at me .i diidnt understand him.but this dosent mean that he didnt like me.he do what ever i like even try to give all comforts to me .what should i do.after sex i feel the situation of use and throw.i even use to cry but not let him know that i was crying.help me please dia replied. Hi neha,Its very easy to solve ur problem.You have solution in ur own hands.
For these kind of husbands ,u need to be extra careful and have to maintain Decency as if u r maintaining with stranger. Then he'll set right.

Actually the more u go near by him he goes that far.So stop touching him .Just stop .
Dont hug or kiss...no romance with him for sometime.Decide once and be firm and stick to ur decision not to touch him.
Whenever he come for s** just say u r not ready for it and tell him excuse like u did some pooja or something so u dont want it that day. Implement this strictly . ACT RIGID and then u can c difference.
He definitely find difference and tryto come closer.
Follow this simple trick and n'joy rest of life.
But be firm and if u notice any change in him ,dont melt down, still be firm to ur decision not to touch him.

You have to close ur fist to make him intrested to see whats there in. If u open ur fist urself he'll not find any intrest at that thing u have in.

So ,take care dear.And u wrote u feel like use and thrown after s**. but most of men like to have own time after making love. Let him be in his own world for some time. during that time u jsut go to sleep and dont expect him to respond something. Sometimes my hubby remember his parents and tell me somethings bout childhood things.. I used to wonder how come this guy can talk 'bout irrelevant things after those moments with wfe. But later i habituated and started sleepng immediately because still i dont like getting others topic at that private time . So dont worry about that .let him in his own space and u just go to sleep. Dont cry ...more u cry u become more leniant.

Just behave as if u dont need his touch and u dont have any of romantic feelings.This makes difference.

And finally..Dont forget to tell me the news that he became romantic :)!You deserve it and u can change him!