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We are a small family, my husband, me and our daughter who is 3and half years she is going to a play scholl, the problem is she is becoming very stubborn at home she somtimes doesnot listen to us, if she makes a mistake she will be very stubborn to say sorry.My husband and me love her alot and i am working too, but whatever time is there we spend with her never leave her alone at home with the maid for parties or movies we most of the time take her wherever we go except may be a few places once in a way, I called her school teacher to explain my daughter politely as my daugher is very fond of her teacher her teacher was all praises about my daughter that she is a polite kid very caring and rather she is 'ROLE MODEL' for other kids.
I was shocked can u tell me what could the reason for her behaving so rude at home sometimes or is it just a phase at this stage..

please help..... neha replied. Thanks Sheetal was just a bit worried but what aspect u thought i never ever was able to expalore taht she is taking decisions and has guts to say that may be if i pressurise her more she will rebel and then lie which is more dangerous, guess u are right let her grow....
Thanks a million... Sheetal replied. Hi Neha,
I have 3 yr old daughter and 10 month old baby girl my elder one,also behaves in same manner she is not too stubborn but yes i must say she is developing as a person. you know at this age kids start having their own likes and dislikes. They start developing as different person altogether. I know it feels bad if she boldly says NO to what i say but then its good if she says. dont you think it is the first lesson one should have to be able to say NO in this wild wild world. Your daughter is perfect and only thing she must be oevr doin it bcoz u r working too. You are trying hard to give her as much time as you could so dont feel guilty on that part. Just see that you spend quality time rather then quantity. Your daughter must angel like mine too just support and respect her views. offcourse once in while one little spack is needed but you will be able handle that. every mother knows what is best for her child.
Its a phase of personality development all is fine.
Take care
Sheetal