Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi friends,

Every month i wait and hope that, \";i dont get my periods this month\"; but it pops up.

Hoping that this month proves favorable for me. Am always trying to pose a positive attitude. But negativity lands!! booo hoooooooooooooo!!

Waiting n waiting n waiting!!!!

Karishma

P.S. was feeling a bit depressed so thought to vent out my feelings in front of you guys!! Who else will know my state of mind better that you guys!!! Please keep in touch with me. Your mails make my day!!!! Sunshine replied. We've all been there done that. Just don't expect anything. Infact, just be in your normal routine!
Viv is right, just read a few good books, don't log on to this board too often. Be cool. Just go out there and do u'r thing. Enjoy life. Live each day Life is too short and fragile. Enjoy your relationships! love and be loved.
Smile and laugh. Be happy. Thanks God for everything u have. and everything that will come. look for the silver lining.
Be happy.
Take care,
Love
Sunshine jazy replied. see i feel after joining this messg brd.u must hav felt a bit relaxed as so many people to support u emotionally..rite ! idont kno but impliment this ...start persuing ur hobbies...do somthing constuctive ! say this to urself 10 times ... i can do it . or i m fine !
tell me if it helps.. Karishma replied. hi friends,

ur messages have made my day!!

Anu, even i am sailing in the same boat as you. even my periods are very erratic. But i am trying not to be depressed.

As latha and anu said, i guess the best is yet to come and God is trying to check whether we are able to hold onto what is happening inside us.

Keep in touch.

Luv,

Karishma Latha replied. Dear Karishma,

I totally understand what you are going thru, we all do. I patiently wait for every month not to see a blood spot when i go to the bath room. But, there it is every month!!! Sometimes I feel that God is testing us to see how much we long for babies and also he is trying make us strong (even more, than we are rightnow).
It's very hard to stay positive...especially when we are depressed. But we all are trying our best to stay positive, and hoping for the best.
I read in O magazine (Oprah), that we actually become what we believe we are, not what we wish or, like. But, what we truly believe. So, believe even when it feels it's impossible. God will bless us all soon.

With love, hugs and prayers,
Latha
Anu replied. hi karishma

ur message made me cheerful.see i am worring why this period is not coming... u r worrying y the period is coming...c what a contervacy the god is playing...anyway lets hope for the best will happen to both of us and all in TTC. vivi replied. I just posted a message. Hope that helps u too.Cummon forget the bad part and get urself busy in other things..and do not get addicted to the messsage board. Limit the time u spend here and read some good books or whatever makes u happy.there is goodtime for sure. Just have patience that's what i did.
Praying for u and wishing luck