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hi ..i am new to this site.i need some information .i am 25 and married for 1 1/2 yrs.the pbm is i am having very irregeular periods.i took pills to get my periods every month.but last 2 months i have not taken the pills and till now i am not getting my periods.i also did a pregnency test ,but it was negative.i cld'nt find my ovulation day....i dont know what to do...what could me wrong?.i am badly in need of a baby. Sunshine replied. hi Anu,

I must say I have to agree with Karishma. I too feel you should go to OB/Gyn, have u'rself checked. irregular periods is definately not a good thing. Sadly though, problems cropping from this are many and unfortunately common. I also suggest that u don't stop taking the pills to get regular periods. Go for an ovulation scan after u'r next period (after consulting the ob/gyn) next, let them determine whether or not u are ovulating properly. Please don't loose heart.
Always remember that God is watching out for you. If u feel that he's not giving u something u want, remember that He is only testing you! and try to prove yourself worthy of His trust.
Be good, and be happy. I wish u have a lovely healthy baby soon.
Love always,
Sunshine Karishma replied. Hi Anu,

I feel u must go to your OBG/GYN and find out whether there is a pregnancy or no. Sometimes UPT can give u false positive or false negative results too.

I feel you must go to your doctor and check that first. and after that in case the results r negative, GOD FORBID, then tell your doctor about your problem and she will soon find out the root cause of your problem. She might tell you to take certain blood test, et al, to find out what is stopping you from getting your periods and also what is the problem with u for not being able to conceive. I feel whosoever reads this message of yours, will, i guess, have the same thinking as me.

Hoping that your UPT done by your doctor gives a positive result. and in case it doesnt dont worry. Time is a big healer and it will heal you!!! We are all sailing in the same boat, so hang around and might b in some time u will not be seen in this board but will be in the due date board!!!!

Hoping that God passes lots of baby dust to you and also to all of us!!

love,

Karishma