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hi,
i got married b4 3 years, even now my husband doesnt hear me at all, he always hears to his mother. she doesnt think abt our family, she always wants her daughter(my husbands sister) whatever he gives his parents , she gives them to her daughter. they r sucking us like anything. my mil always wants to seperate us y becoz , i explain him all the matters abt our family , we have a kid too, but still he doesnt care us , he only cares his parents. whtever they say he listens to them, n ignore us. when ever i ask abt this ,he slaps me. plz tell me how to get rid of my in-laws.
n lead a happy life with my husband. bharati replied. hi,
as u said dats fine if we help needy, but they r far better dan us, her husband is a lawyer, n she too works as a medical transcriptionist. they earn more dan we. but still y these people grab for others? n my mil n fil too support their daughter, n start shouting on me, if they alone shout then its ok , i'll not take them to the heart ,but listening to them when my h'band shout on dat too in front of them , ifeel very bad. it is his goodness they stole n use. n he blindly believes them, so they started transfering everything to their account. i dont care if i'm alone, but we have a kiddat too a girl. i tried to explain him abt this many times ,but nouse.my inlaws now all the politics to convince him , n i'm a straight forward type so not able to face them. plz help me . Chadrika` replied. Hi Bharati,
I am also as same situation like yours..i guess most of the families like this..unless untill husband realises they are sucking, you can't do anything..but be smart..don't fight back with your husband,act smart..you know a women can change men..slowly show him or act how much you love him.i think one day he realises..or till mil passes away(i know i am little rude, but that's all i can think of).can you believe my sil sits in my mils house..and my husband is the one who takes care of their expenditure..but another thing i want to tell you, if your sil is not doing well in her life..it is ok to give her a little bit..what ever you help for needy people(relative or non relative) now, god will surely pay back later by doubling it to you.