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I got married few years ago. I have a kid also. My husbands nature is very strange. He is mad for his own relatives but doesn't give repect to my relatives..Whenever there is a function at home he invites his all relatives(including the distant one's also) but never bothered to invite my relatives. He knows very well that my relatives are 100 times better than his. because of his this nature i never enjoy any parties where he invites just his own relatives and for inviting my relatives i remind him 50 times then he gives a call to my parents..forget about my other relatives.He is not bothered...I don;t like his this attitude...His sis in law is aware of the fact that he is mad for them she also tries to take advantage of that. She never gave respect to me and my relatives but still my husband treats her in a way as if she is god for him..He always compared me with her which i never liked....My parents always give respect to him and his relatives without expecting anything from them but they think they are superior ...
My relatives gives him costly gifts but he is never thankful to them but if his relatives gives him just of 100 or 200 Rs gift he thinks that they have done a great thing for him....When i refuse him to go anywhere for picnic with his relatives he warns me by saying that then your family members will also not come at my home...My husband has a big house and earning a very high salary. but i want happiness not money. I have told this thing to my husband number of times but he ignores that..Pls. tell me what to do in that situtaion? Babita replied. Dear Seema!
This is a very common problem. My advise is deal wisely otherwise you will have to suffer for your whole life...It's so difficult to deal with this kind of husbands who makes there wive's life hell...
I can just wish you all the best for your future and the decisions which you will take.
gosh! replied. Its so strange to know that we women share such common problems!sometimes i wonder why we get married :-)
For this nonsense?
Ok...suggest you to be very busy in life...try working or having ur own friend circle....ignore him and his relatives.Have fun with ur relatives without him and let him have fun with his relatives without you.
he will soon understand.
u get my point?
lets be friends... KKevika at yahoo dot co dot in hello replied. I have no ideas for u.Because I'm sailing in almost similar boat...