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Shy Kids:Not responding to teachers questions
2009-09-09
Name: Pramod Kumar



Hi,

My daughter is 3 year and two months old. She is very talkative at home, how never open her mouth in the nursery. Teachers are complaining about this and in spite we telling her she remains same.
Can any suggest some thing about this? Is it too early to take her for a counciling?
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2010-12-01
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Anonymous Name: rhea
Subject:  schools play a major role



hey all,

reading all these posts made me realize that schools play a major role in the personality development of a child.i had to shift my kid' s school as i shifted my place of residence due to my husband' s transfer...my kid joined presidium senior secondary school and i saw big positive changes in him...i mean the confidence level and everything...earlier he was an introvert now he talks like wow! i think a good school can really help your kid speak up...
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2010-06-16
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Anonymous Name: komal
Subject:  shy baby



hi!my daughter is also 3and a half she refsuses to talk ,participate in school, just does not open her mouth at school.speaking to he teacher to let us as parents be in the class to encourage or motivate her to open up.she has been going to the same school from past 1 year. but yet she remains the same
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2010-06-17
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Anonymous Name: Mel
Subject:  Hi Komal



My son is an only child. Very talkative at home, but shy in front of strangers. So, whenever he has to go somewhere, we speak to him about him, and tell him what ideal behaviour is. And trust me, it works wonders.

Don´ t chide her or belittle or pressurize her. Just tell her once a week or so... about how nice it is that she goes to school, and is a big girl. Encourage her to speak up in class. You´ re a big girl, do you know all the answers to the teachers questions ? I bet you do. Why don´ t you answer next time.

And be very positive. Even if you see no results for some time, keep up the encouragement and slowly she will open up. My son was silent during the settling in period, when the mothers were in class. But, once we left, he opened up.

Relax. It´ s not a big deal. Let her open up in her own time.
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2009-10-14
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Anonymous Name: mamtha
Subject:  Shy kids



Hello, It is to early to label your kid as shy becoz kids do have fear of strangers quiet for some time. It is too early for counselling. Wait till she grows to 5 years atleast. Please try to provide an environment where she can meet new friends, relatives, and tries to be comfortable with new environment.
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RE:Is Your Baby Shy?
Parents can help their children expand their boundaries while still respecting their nature by using concrete strategies to deal with stressful social situations... - neha [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
According to me you should take your child to a counselor and ask her what is the exact problem as this is not common and you should get into it as soon as possible and understand the real reason behind the same, please do not ignore this its a request.... - Anaida [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello dear this is really nothing to worry as its very common and you should not take this matter as a big concern as kids at this age are normally shy and they do not like meeting new people infact they want only their friends and all with them.... - Anita [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello madam this is really sad to see but then please speak to your daughter and ask her why is she doing like this and what is the exact problem because there might be chances that your daughter is hiding something from you and you should think on he same.... - Vijay [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hello Divya please do not leave this matter as it should be dealt immediately and you should not leave this like this, please get this sorted out as soon as possible and you should also know one thing that this is very rare to see in kids nowadays... - Vinay [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hey dear this is ok and you should not think so much as its very young age and you should not think in that way as i am sure she will develop more as the age passes and you will see the difference very soon so please do not worry at all and relax.... - Anu [View Message]
RE:Shyness right or wrong?
Hey dear according to me its completely fine and you need not to worry so much as she is very young and as time passes she will develop this in her, please do not worry and also do not force her also for the same as this is will really be a bad thing to do.... - Anita [View Message]

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