I have been reading for some tome on this board...although i am an active member of this group i will remain anon as i have noticed too much finger pointing and i too do not want to be black listed with the rest.
Seems like there is alot of anamosity btwn everyone here,. Hetal you have a right to give advice so as to everyone here but in everyones messages the underlying truth is all of you think that you are right and others are wrong.
Hetal- you think that you way is right..i have noticed to write long messages tell me the truth do you ever use your own advice. I know that all this is done in indian etc etc but in abroad we have to go by the standards where we klive. Because of research we are where we are.
Sweety, smile, anitha etc- you have always been sweet and open about everything which i respcet of you you listen with open minds and give great advice
Priya- I have read you mails and messages for some time..i can say that you are knowledgabkle in your advice also i have taken tips from you and they hhave worked. But i think when you write messages ppl and misunderstanding you. I think that you should not be concerned for others.
Amita- Who are you? everytime i read you are there when someone has too say something negative...please refrain from doing so and if you can give some nice advice also to expecting mothers. This board is for everyone nand we are free for others from other boards to read messages here as much as you have rights to come write messages here so does someone else.
Sheetal-you are a nice person alo i understand what you are trying to say your advic eis downto earth and not superficial which i adore.
Priya-Hetal-Sheetal you are ones who have been here the longest you advice has always been great but hetal i have to say that your messages are too long and sometimes very fake...not practical for many mothers...although you have given good advice i have only maybe taken in 20% of it.
Thanks all
Anon Anon replied. Seema i am a regular participator but dont want my name out due to all these arguments here i am speaking in a sense that all indian things should be done tooi also do all indian things at home aswell but i dont believe that we should disgard standards where we live and go by india standards alone.
Hetal- you are coming across very rude if you want to explain something to someone please be open minded. i would prefer to be general thendirect blame on one person like what you have been doing.
It seems like half the websites you give are cut and pasted from other sites. i find it hard to believe that you can go through so many sites with a little baby unless you work for yahoo.
Anon
I am not trying to be rude here i am just trying to see sense of all this. Hetal replied. thanks for pointing at the fact that my post are long !
they will be always long, dont mind. i have a bad or good habit of explaining reasons behind it which often people expect. and, yeah like one of our members said, do not make your comments general !
please parcipate regularly !

if you feel its fake, dont read them,,i will be very happy if i have one less person to read my post and reply them !
thanks, take care.
seema replied. hi anon, how are you
i asked the same question to hetal when she told about tips and advices because i did feel that i dont give advices that i use. But if you see in her advices she often mentions the sites names also that she used the same for nirja too. so i think she is not fake as you say. i believe that we have to follow the standard of the place we live but that does not mean they fit us just the way it fits everyone. Indian food, indian lifestyle is different from US. we have more than just salt and pepper. and let me tell you anon, hetal advices has helped me and many people overr here. Her advices are long because we ask her such question. she works out all the possibilities of a problem. i appreciate that. to work out all the possibilities for a particular problem you need to have certain level of knowledge for it.
anon,if you are not parcipative i do not think you have right to comment on anyone, why only hetal.
everyone in this board are wonderful people. i like the way they discuss openly, share everything also sometimes get into arguements and find the truth together.

anon,amita do not spoil it by making differences between them.
my same comments for amita.
if you can not help people, do not comment on those people who are trying to help.Nobody here is genious or is down to earth. everybody is a mother of a baby and i think that is enough to judge their maturity in talking about things.

Seema