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2006-06-05

Name: dfd
my hubby told me the other day that he would like to have sex with his friends wife... isnt it a disrespect to me. what should i do

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2006-06-06

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It is true that noone can joke about anything like this...this can never be a joke.
I wish you all the best and since he has asked Sorry..then he is a not a total satan but definetly a very immoral person so now Tell him straight on the face this:
\";If you want me to stay with you,you have to be faithfull to me until the end.If I ever hear one more thing like this or catch you doing something out of the marriage again...I am going to tell your parents What I heard and saw and I will explain to them on what grounds I am leaving you and I will leave you\";
If you are successfully able to say this and move on it will be good.
He deserves to hear this wife and hopefully he changes.
Give him this chance and always remember that he is very immoral and when given a chance he will cheat on you!.

2006-06-05

Name: dias
Subject:

hi dfd

y dont u tell 'bout u and ur hubby more before we conclude something that really doesnt help you if we dont know ur situation exactly?!
Because sometimes he might be joking or pulling ur leg to see ur reactions...But even then he shdn't mention whom he want to do it with .

So,tell us what a kinda person he is? then we can say u ,how to deal with it.

2006-06-06

Name: dfd
Subject:

hi WHAT

what u said is true i m not going to waste my time pleasing him or surprising him, its a total waste of time.. he said sorry after i got upset but i dont believe that he was joking ,,, nobody does a joke of this kind he told me whats on his mind...... i will just walk out if this goes beyond my patience,, and i feel there is no point talking to his parents, coz they feel their son is the best husband on earth... i have lost respect, trust on my hubby..

2006-06-06

Name: WHAT...
Subject:

Good Luck.

Surprising him, trying to follow him or trying to please him etc., is NOT going to work here?!!..TOTAL NONSENSE...The fact is he has told her straight on face 'I WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH MY FRIEND'S WIFE'...This is totally atrocious!!!..I would advice you onething to save you time and energy over this one.GO CONFRONT HIM AND ASK HIM WHAT IS IN HIS MIND.DID HE TELL IT FROM HIS HEART OR JUST A JOKE..watever it is he says tell him YOU ARE TOTALLY UPSET.DON'T KNOW IF YOU WILL BE ABLE TO GO ON IN THIS RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE OF WHAT HE SAID.
Honestly I think that is true?!...
With this kind of an attitude what kind of treatment he is going to give her???..
Few men in this world are very honest and 100% faithfull to wife.
Some men fantasize..But dont tell it out ...that too to their wife?..
Some men fantasize and show it in actions and keep flirting with other women in front of their wives...
This fellow tells it straight on her face?...What does he think???...
Remember he has done a crime by saying that?..
When you confront him if he says 'Yes I meant it and not sorry about it etc.,,Tell him you are taking it to his parents ?...SORT THIS OUT DEAR..THIS IS A VERY BAD AND RUTHLESS BEHAVIOUR..GOODLUCK

2006-06-05

Name: dias
Subject:

take care!

take care of yourself dear!
Try to involve him with you toomuchtime and dont give him much time to roam around.When he is going to start frm office just ask him to come home soon,Some surprise is awaiting ...Just make sure u'll give him a surprise .
ACt and show care for him toomuch,and make him attraced to u.So that u can avoid him frm roaming with others.
Be jovial and try to dress -up according to his likes .
If he is interested in roaming frieds , just ask him to take u with him too.

C if u can control his roaming?!

2006-06-05

Name: dfd
Subject:

he is having lot of friends and everybody has a good opinion about him coz his world is only his friends more than me, or even his parents....... he speaks very well even with his friends wives, i can say he flirts very well.

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