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I need to change myself too.Here is problem with me.He doesnt listen to me ,because I ,myself feel inferior to everyone.and he feel me to change myself first.We bboth r at 2 different extremes.He is over confident, I'm not at all confident.
As my huby is too proudish and over confident as I described in my previous post ....I am becoming still low .Can I syncronyse his and my behaviour

I'm working ,good looking , post graduate and richer than any other firend.But still whren I see them spend lavishly(I described it in last post) ..I cant help myself feeling inferior .I earn lot some money where as they r not working woman.
Still I loose confedence while speaking to them .I cant speakout strong. Adn always try to be nice and accept whatever they say.My hubby doesnt like me to be humble.

But certainly I cant follow him but at least I wanna improve my self confidence.
I'm really good house keeper but my hubby criticises me in maintaining home at best.I'm feeling low and starting to feel 'FIT FOR NOTHING' (he says it occassionally,But me imposed myself he's correct).

My mom always try to boost me up while describing what I have at best but still I feel low.Pl give me some self confidence !! My hubby says I cant air u all the times to make u feel better.

Know what,When we go vacation ,At my in-laws place ,I feel low in some relatives presence ...while they r from small village and not educated and not much mannered Where as I'm PG ,living in USA and b'tiful.I feel low because I cant do house work as they do.But the thing is ...My hubby says me I can do at best compared to them if I can be confident .
Inferiority complex everywhere!How should I help myself?!! My hubby wants me to be like CARE_NOT. but I cant be like that.I still want to be loving and humble.Except that inferiority...

Plz tell me how to manage myself?! At work, too I feel infeiror if I dont achieve anythuing in anymonth(Though I have good name )

Also, I can achieve anything if I be confidentbut but nowadays started feeling too low with my relatives because my hubby is not nice person in behaviour as they r.

So this is my case...Whta shd I do?!! Here I didnt have probs with this nature of mine.But I want to be high myseldf and confident which adds me grace.
Plz tell me solutions!

shreya replied. Just came across this post of yours ,i have tried to give you some tips in Sarika's post.I don't want to repost it here .Just for your info. ss replied. I just dont understand one thing..
What are you saying about your husband..Is he understanding or not understanding?..At one point you say he thinks you can do a good job..But again you are saying he is not a nice person..Don't take it offensively please describe your hubby more in detail dear