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Name: vaishnavi S

Hi,
I am a working women with 15 months old baby and 6 months old pregnancy. I need suggestion as i am confused. My doctor told me not to take much strain by doing house hold chores by standing for long or i should not exert my body much but you can understand as i am working and i have a young first baby as well so how much ever i can i am trying hard to take rest. As we have a probability of Pre-mature delivery again so trying to take more precautions. My doc told me to continue with work. My hubby is supporting a lot in house hold aspects. My parents came to see us for a day but it was more additional burden on me and my hubby to cook food for them as my mom is just not ready to single small thing also as she is in good health and she does entire house hold chores and cooking in her home for my brother' s family too. Next month because of society pressure my mom want to come and stay for 10 days or so but we are just not in a state to pamper her as we are really concerned on my pregnancy but unable to tell my mother that with her arrival its more pressure on me and my hubby as when he is not well also he prepared food for my parents that time i had severe nausea and was unable to get up from bed also. So we are thinking what to do as we two doesnt have concern on food can eat plain khichdi or so but my parents have so much concerns on food they need specific food. I am in a dilemma, my hubby is saying tell them that there presence doesnt help us but increases lot of physical and mental pressure. I dont know how to convey this to them. Can anyone suggest me on it?

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