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hi all,
i read the problems of many women on this board nd sure upto some xtent they wud hv found the solution.
i also hv some problems with my hubby not big ones but many small thing between us r not like normal. i m in 4th yr of my marriage nd m pregnant this time. my hubby loves me very much nd also show it many times. but he is very short tempered nd got angry very easily on such small things that one even can't imagine. like one day i said its very hot here nd fan is not doing well, he did not like this nd said ''u don't realise how much complaining u r, how much demanding u r. my parents tought me to live in as it is''
also he doen't like my parents especially my mother. once my FIL had a heart-attack so my parents came to see him. there he got to know that my FIL also having diabetes so my mother as she knows it inherits in offspring adwise my hubby that he shud alse take less sweets. nd my hubby got angry he came to me nd said ''ur mother has no mind at all, i m her SIL nd she shud not talk like this.'' i cud not understand why on such normal talks he gets angry.
these r just two incidents as its not possible to write abt all of them.
so i just want to know does anybody also faces this kind of thing like a loving but a short tempered husband.... Dias replied. It doesnt matter. because I saw many friends hubbies are like this.And my hubby gets angry sometimes.These short-tempered hubbies love wives verymuch but cant control emotions tthat time.

According to my huubby,Whatever he says when he gets angry r slipped from toungue and not from heart and he asks me to ignore those talks .
If u r in india, u can try Art of Living classes.It gives lotta change.

As we r here in USA ,I dont know if we have any such classes without consuming more time and money.If any of u know 'bout these classes , Pl advise me I'm in CA.

I requested him to control this nature but he is helpless.So he is thinking of ART OF LIVING classes.
When he is in such mood, just dont heat up discussion and stay cool.It makes him sympothise u and rethink on controlling his anger next time.It worked for me.