Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

dear arcie,

this is my first post to u...
My overies r working and producing eggs and eggs r rupturing well..fellopian tubes r normal..uterus r normal..
My husbands semen test cameout verygood.
so wt could be the problem? really i cldn't able to understand wts going on ....

I met one gyn in HK.she said that she wants to see afterintercourse in my vegina...
wt she will do to see.. i am scaring..abt it
is it painful test or wt...
wt is bloodgroups RH +/- in me and my hubby

pls give me answer
iam totally confusing ...whether everything is fine in me (as doctor said)wt i am not getting pregnency?
luv
sunee archie replied. Dear Sunee,
It can take a year or longer even if all is normal. There are 1000s of couple who have absolutely fine fertility data and can't conceive for years but there are ways to get them pregnant as they don't necessarily need sperm or egg donor.

First of all what such healthy couples should do is learn to enjoy their intercourse better than thinking about why are failures while ttc. This is key. It's about enjoying intimacy and moment. And unfortunately regardless how many time professionals will tell many don't understand that stress is working against the whole process. I know a few who did not like suggestion that they are overly stressed and these are examples I came across IP here on this board. I am here to suggest and not to hurt someone or make miracle for them!

Your case is called \";Unexplained fertility\"; and as said earlier there are 1000s of couple sailing this most difficult and frustrating boat.

You have told nothing in this message about followings:
your age and your spouses age
your cycle regularity and any troubles with periods

It may take a long to get to understand case like yours and then hit the road of success.

I don't understand what test is your GYnecologist referred. May be you are spelling it in different, I really can't make out anything from your line that \";gynecologist wants to see afterintercourse in my vagina\";.

How sure are you about your spouse penetration?

Work on the time, which is main factor affecting many unexplained fertility cases.

Of course the environment.

Any latent infection.

There are numerous factors one would wonder for such cases but difficult to say what's exactly happening as each case is different.

You have to tell exactly the test your gynecologist said without that can't say anything.

However, you should not be scared of any test if suggessted by professionals. They are meant to help you conceive and you should be more than willing to do them than wondering if that's needed or if that's painful. I think especially when not getting in itself is more painful how does it matters if the test offered gives a little physical pain for a few hours or a day! Be frank while juding what I said in this message.

Summing all above: I can't say a word without knowing what test exactly is to be offered to you.
your age and your spouse age
cycle length and their regularity.

archie