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Name: su

Thank you happy. I thank you all for your replies to my queries in \";how mean\";. Now i could see some changes with my husband. However my mil and sil are giving me troubles everytime we call them, which i cannot avoid. All complaints are about my family members. Also things like i should not inform some of my relatives about my pregnancy, should not have baby shower, i should take care of my pregnancy alone and all discouraging suggestions one after the other, week after week. If i say i eat almond and drink saffron milk for my baby, even that makes my mil jealous. I am so sick of these complaints that for sometime i couldnot enjoy my pregnancy.

I am wondering what went wrong. Because this was the same mil, who picked me up as a suitable bride for her son. At that time she said every good word about me and convinced him to see me. Now after marriage all of a sudden wherefrom this jealousy, comparison, suspicion came to her mind. She wants to compare my life with her own and her daughter's in every aspect. When i get what they missed, i am advised not to take it. When i don't get what they have, i am called as unlucky. I never deny her any privilige of a mil. I never come between my husband and his family. Why so much of insecurity and cunningness? It looks absurd to me. There is no necessary for her to feel like this or to behave like this. I am so irriated and tired. I pray to God that her bad feelings and words shouldn't affect me or my baby.
I find this website a very good tool for letting out my feelings and relaxing myself. I thank all of you for your advices and support. I remember your advice that i should ignore. I am trying to do it, it is not so easy. Hope time will help me to stay happy.

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