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Name: Sunshine

Hi Viv,

Referring to the message I posted a couple of weeks ago. I' m sorry I didn' t see your reply earlier. But I hope it' s not too late to start what may be a good friendship and support group.
You asked me for some tips. I assume (and i hope i don' t become becoz of this) that you want some tips of staying healthy, and positive.
The best way is to trust God. Pray. Keep your self physically and mentally occupied.
Do something different. Dance. Read a good book, (I personally recommend reading books by Dr. Brian Weiss, if you like the idea of re-birth & after-life & soul-mates, etc.)
Watch good movies, indulge your hobbies.
Go out. The more you isolate yourself the harder things become. Enjoy a healthy relationship with your spouse and family. Talk to your best friend.
Enjoy your relationship. Be romantic. Buy your hubby flowers or small gifts. Initiate a physical relation with him. Experiment. Have fun. Don' t think excessively about babies. But don' t flinch everytime someone mentions them. Go for a massage. Exercise. Most of all LAUGH.
The list is endless. And the idea is to do things you enjoy.
Most of all Trust in God. Stay cool. Be practical. Be fun also. Be wierd also.

If there' s anything I can do to help, please do let me know.

Above all, take care.

With love,
Sunshine

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