this may be very silly, but i just wanted to clear my mind up regarding this.it has been bothering me since a long time, so thought i' ll get some help here.

my daughter' s due date was jan 30th, but she was born on jan 13th. my birthday is June 13th. my childhood was very bad.my mom passed away when i was 5yrs old due to breast cancer.then my dad remarried & my stepmom never liked me.i went through an emotional abuse all my childhood.overall my 1st part of life was very sad & trumatic until i got married.after marriage things started getting better & i' m so much in love with my husband & more than anything i have this most beautiful gift\" my daughter\" now.

but somehow i had this at the back of my mind that may be all this happened since i was born on 13th.our family never believes in all these things.i only heard it from my friends in school that 13 is an unlucky number & from then on i started believing it.when my due date was given as jan 30th i was so relieved that i' m far away from 13th, but to my disbelief my baby was born 3 weeks early & exactly on 13th date of all.

my husband says that nothing like that exists & we just need to have God' s blessings to have a good life, but i' m somehow paranoid about this. i dont want my daughter to suffer like me.this thing was killing me inside.i didnt know whom to talk to. so i thought this is the best place to get some opinions on this as people here are very helpful & give their honest opinions.

is 13th really an unlucky number? i dont know whats the myth behind this?? none of our family members believe in this & they dont even know about it.

please help me.have you come across anyone born on 13th & has a happy & successful life? i know i shouldnt be thinking like this, hope you all understand my feelings.i just want the best for my baby, so i' m getting paranoid about it.please help.i really want to know about this.

thanks in advance for all your inputs.

Jyoti replied. Hi Saanvi........

I have just gone thorugh ur post........ very late reply I know but I cant resist myself from replying as we share our birth dates.....

I am also born on 13th and that of November......... and I am living a very happy married life with my dear hubby........ working.... blessed with a very cute baby..... successful as a lady in every way!!!!!!!

Previous half of my life was also very good........... very loving parents,bro and sis..... for me everything i m blessed with is best.........

So dont worry and just enjoy with ur beautiful angel and dear hubby and forget abt past!!!!!!!!! mandeep replied. My own massi' s son and daughter were born on 13th (6 year apart) n they r well settled and happy and married with kids. So please take out 13 as a bad number from your head and heart. I belive in sikhissim n we r taught that all days. time ,min, sec r good if something goes wrong that' s god wills.
enjoy your daughter as kids grow up so fast. but i would like to say u that you make sure to have regular check up for breast cancer as you said your mum had. and again this is nothing to unlucky number as your mum had so you also might get but still i can be wrong but drs. says like this n thats why i am wrtting. have a good healty diet n take care of yourself if u see any unusal things with your breast then make sure to see dr. as soon as possible so that the treatment should be started as soon as possible.