Dear all,
Let me start with the wishes for a baby for u all. I'm reading ur mails for long but this is the first time I'm writing. From all of ur mails I could understand that u r worrying much. Please do not worry about it. Don't think about your disabilities. one day or the other u will also become a proud parent. I could see from some of the friends letter that they hesitate to go out. DO not do this. I can understand ur problem. ..in a party all of ur friends will be busy feeding their child and taking care of them. Do not care about them. Be bold and think as if u r a newly married couple. Infact the old one will envy at you when comparing themselves. In a crowd a stranger will think that all r old except a couple. He doesnot know ur age, he can only guess thru' ur kids.. Think like this. Some of you may murmer that \";Sheela can say easily but she has to come in our position\";. Don't worry I'm also sailing in the same boat. I'm also married for 3+ years.All of the treatments had a worst end. But I'm happy and I can be happy as long as my husband is with me. I don't give any attention to the people around whispering nonsensical phrases. If anybody ask me \";y no baby still?\";... I just reply \"; don't you allow me to be young ...with a laugh\";.. and change the topic.
So once again be happy, read books, try to tell others some useful and encouraging words, go for a walk, indulge in other activities like playing a game, cleaning a house, interior decoration etc, go for shopping...in other words keep yourself busy. May GOD bless you all..
Bye
Yours
Sheela
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Dear all,
Let me start with the wishes for a baby for u all. I'm reading ur mails for long but this is the first time I'm writing. From all of ur mails I could understand that u r worrying much. Please do not worry about it. Don't think about your disabilities. one day or the other u will also become a proud parent. I could see from some of the friends letter that they hesitate to go out. DO not do this. I can understand ur problem. ..in a party all of ur friends will be busy feeding their child and taking care of them. Do not care about them. Be bold and think as if u r a newly married couple. Infact the old one will envy at you when comparing themselves. In a crowd a stranger will think that all r old except a couple. He doesnot know ur age, he can only guess thru' ur kids.. Think like this. Some of you may murmer that \";Sheela can say easily but she has to come in our position\";. Don't worry I'm also sailing in the same boat. I'm also married for 3+ years.All of the treatments had a worst end. But I'm happy and I can be happy as long as my husband is with me. I don't give any attention to the people around whispering nonsensical phrases. If anybody ask me \";y no baby still?\";... I just reply \"; don't you allow me to be young ...with a laugh\";.. and change the topic.
So once again be happy, read books, try to tell others some useful and encouraging words, go for a walk, indulge in other activities like playing a game, cleaning a house, interior decoration etc, go for shopping...in other words keep yourself busy. May GOD bless you all..
Bye
Yours
Sheela
Sunshine replied. Hi Sheela,
You sound like a gil after my own heart. I have to agree with you. And I wish that we are able to give that kind of love and support to all our friends on this board and all around us.
I wish you all the best, and pray that some day soon you have your own sweet angle to hold, love and cherish.
With love,
Sunshine
Sunshine replied. Hi Sheela,
You sound like a gil after my own heart. I have to agree with you. And I wish that we are able to give that kind of love and support to all our friends on this board and all around us.
I wish you all the best, and pray that some day soon you have your own sweet angle to hold, love and cherish.
With love,
Sunshine
suman replied. Do you have any advice for the couple who tried for 8-9 yrs or more??..b'coz obiviously they look old, they don't look like newly married.And who don't want to adopt , since doctor has giving them no reason , why they are not getting pregnent.
latha replied. I agree with Parul. That was very encouraging, i used to be like that, very happy and cheerful. After my 2 miscarriages I have changed. Thank you very much for your post. I will try to be more positive. I have to say that I AM BLESSED WITH A WONDERFUL HUSBAND, who supports me everything I do. So, staying positive is not going to be difficult, after all i was once very positive person. Thanks again sheela.
Love & Prayers,
Latha
Parul replied. Dear Sheela,
That was quite encouraging . Thanks
Parul
2005-03-19
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Name: Sunshine Subject: Hi
Hi Sheela,
You sound like a gil after my own heart. I have to agree with you. And I wish that we are able to give that kind of love and support to all our friends on this board and all around us.
I wish you all the best, and pray that some day soon you have your own sweet angle to hold, love and cherish.
With love,
Sunshine
2005-03-19
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Name: Sunshine Subject: Hi
Hi Sheela,
You sound like a gil after my own heart. I have to agree with you. And I wish that we are able to give that kind of love and support to all our friends on this board and all around us.
I wish you all the best, and pray that some day soon you have your own sweet angle to hold, love and cherish.
With love,
Sunshine
2005-03-18
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Name: suman Subject: 8 yrs
Do you have any advice for the couple who tried for 8-9 yrs or more??..b'coz obiviously they look old, they don't look like newly married.And who don't want to adopt , since doctor has giving them no reason , why they are not getting pregnent.
2005-03-18
#4
Name: Parul Subject: Dear Suman
I understand trying for 8 yrs is very painful. U may nt look like a newly married couple but ur outlook and attitude towards life will mke a difference !
Parul
2005-03-18
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Name: latha Subject: Dear Sheela
I agree with Parul. That was very encouraging, i used to be like that, very happy and cheerful. After my 2 miscarriages I have changed. Thank you very much for your post. I will try to be more positive. I have to say that I AM BLESSED WITH A WONDERFUL HUSBAND, who supports me everything I do. So, staying positive is not going to be difficult, after all i was once very positive person. Thanks again sheela.
Love & Prayers,
Latha
2005-03-18
#6
Name: Parul Subject: HI
Dear Sheela,
That was quite encouraging . Thanks
Parul
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