Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Dear Parul and sunshine
Thanks for Ur prompt reply .when I saw every body has similar problem like me there is so many helping hands and mind to give u encouragement and support then I felt here I can talk to some one and that is it. PARUL and SUNSHINE her is my short story I get married in 1997 and my husband came back to USA after marriage (HE IS USA CITIZEN) and after one year came back to take me with him and at that time I conceive and have passed almost 12 weeks but in that time I always feel pain in abdominal and my pregnancy change in to miscarriage its happened in 1998 and I had DNC my dr. told me not to try for another six months
And at the same time I started work in the factory and I did not took any rest after my DNC and that factory work was very hard but I don't had any other choice because if I try to say something to my husband he ignored me and said don't say a word to any body and I compromise with the situation but since after my first miscarriage I am keep trying fro a baby two time I had IVF one time IUI and first few months my dr. put me on clomid 50 and 100 mg and in 2001 I went to INDIA and one dr. write me fertomid-100 and since then I am on that and I am taking every month and its easy to find and get from INDIA but now it's 2005 started but so far results are negative some time I think it's better if died and I know that is not a solution. Please advice and one more thing I want to talk to u about my mother-in-law would u mind? Please let me know.
Lots of love
parvinder
Sunshine replied. Hi,
Parvider, please don't berate yourself like this. And i agree with Parul, ask your husband to go for a semen analysis. I know you have concieved before, but that doesn't mean that his sperm count may not be low.
Secondly, why are you compromising over your health? Nothing is as important. Ask your doctor if the physical environment around you is harming your health.
You also sound like you are completely stressed. Try this excerise, it sounds completely cuckoo, but it's quite de-stressing. Pour a bit of water on a flat suface, (kitchen counter/ table) and play with the water, like make patterns etc. While doing this, concentrate only on the water, it's feel it's coolness, it's texture etc. Do this for 7-10 minutes, you will feel fresh. But condition being that u have to think only about the water.
And sweetie, you can talk to us about anything. Though i don't know how anyone else on this board may feel. Please feel free to email me sweets80 at the rate of rediffmail dot com
Please take care,
Love always,
Sunshine Parul replied. HI.. U r right , everyone in this board have more or less the same probs.
I read ur history. Have u done Semen analysis of ur husband? Has ur doc checked for tubal blockage?
Mother in law... U can share anything and everything, My email Id is parul_popli at the rate hotmail
Love,
parul