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Shy Kids:How should i make her comportable in school & inte
2006-12-20
Name: Aditi Padhye



My daughter is 2 yrs i have sent her to school but she starts crying from the moment she gets up it is one month but she is not adjusting. she does 't like even word school she starts crying. she is very social in home she also knows ever thing poems & other things but she even does'nt tells what happen in class.please suggest
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2008-11-05
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Anonymous Name: sun
Subject:  kids at school



add this to what i have said.
i followed few things as so many of them advised me
1. i never say - u have to go to school. whenever she says NO - i only tell her the things she would miss if she does' nt
2. i keep saying how people give credits when they go to school. i infact had told my neighbours to say wow when she gets ready to school.
3. when i get her something / cook some good dish of choice - i say i have done it bcos - she has gone to school without crying.

spk postively and dont push them.
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2008-11-05
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Anonymous Name: sun
Subject:  kids at school



Hi aditi
my daughter is 2 and half. it took abt 4 months for her to gt adjusted in school. the problems could be ( my child faced few of them)
1. language. they might spk in English or any other lang apart from the mother tongue of the child.
2. she sees the other kids crying around and therefore panics.
3. holidays in between. may be vacation or long weekends.
4. may be the child sees kids hitting each other.

i spoke to the teacher and she started slowly - now and then talking to the kid in their lang and now she is comfortable.
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2008-11-05
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Anonymous Name: sun
Subject:  kids at school



Hi aditi
my daughter is 2 and half. it took abt 4 months for her to gt adjusted in school. the problems could be ( my child faced few of them)
1. language. they might spk in English or any other lang apart from the mother tongue of the child.
2. she sees the other kids crying around and therefore panics.
3. holidays in between. may be vacation or long weekends.
4. may be the child sees kids hitting each other.

i spoke to the teacher and she started slowly - now and then talking to the kid in their lang and now she is comfortable.
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2007-09-06
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Anonymous Name: Rosy
Subject:  School



Hi,
I have seen this as a normal behaviour in kids who join montessory school and I have also seen them stop by the second or the third week of school. If this is not the case for you then there could be various reasons. First and foremost please meet the concerned teacher and ask for her help. Most of the time when teachers intervene in these matters, the child clams down a bit. Try!
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2007-02-27
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Anonymous Name: bharati
Subject:  It is difficult



Hi Aditi

See it is difficult for anyone to adjust in new environment. so is for children. dont panick.
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