Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Dearest Sonia,
How are you? Too bad that you have to take medicines to alter your cycles. But it is all for the good. Atleast you feel better that you are timing it. Your hubby will be there soon and will be ready for your treatment. Don't you worry dear, you will conceive in the first attempt. See you don't have any problems ovulation; so you would have a very good success rate. I pray to God that such a wonderful person like you should be having a baby soon. So are you feeling normal after the surgery? Hope didn't have too much pain and after effects.
I live in the US. You know, when I first came here I thought I'll go back to India after 4-5 years. But now, I have decided that I'll go back only if I have a baby. If not we'll stay here. Atleast here you don't feel awkward to travel outside if you are a couple and people don't bother you much. I'm so much scared about going to India even for a vacation. All the relatives and even people you just say hi to you ask about the baby. Most of the days I try not to think about this by keeping myself busy with something else. But if my mind is idle even for one second, it returns to these thoughts only.
Take care Sonia and all the best.
Love,
Veena parvinder replied. Dear Sonia ,
I know ur suprised without knowing each other i am writing to u but u know it is not hard to know some body ehen ur in same boat.Any way i am parvinder and i am also going through with same problems like other and u know i am also from USA and I am from chicago and i working as a pharmacy tech. tell me about u from which city ur from and i have smae thoughts like about u to go to INDIA I will pray to GOD by next year u and me will go to INDIA with our NENHA MUNNA and i heard \";prayers goes up blessings comes down.
love,
parvinder sonia replied. Dearest Veena,
Its good that u keep urself busy. what do u do? r u working?

Wish this ordeal gets over soon for you and all of us.
i know once we hold our baby in our arms...this will be a forgotten story.we will be too busy taking care of the baby.

Im feeling absolutely normal after the surgery. no discomfort at all.

u know i took all that medicine but my perods r not showing the signs of coming. It was suppose to start around 7th after medicine....but not yet come. tommorow i will call the doctor to chck with him.anyway 10th would be the normal date for my periods.

my hubby called today..said he will probably come this month end. but im trying not to be too excited...because in this profession things change last minute.even he told methat now only when he gets that in writting he will tell me. lets see im keeping my fingers crossed. hoping it doesnt change.

but at the same time im feeling nervous and anxious....because that wud mean i wud go for IVF soon. im really afraid to think about what will happen.somehow the confidence level goes very low because of all this happening.
veena thank u so much frm all my heart for ur prayers and wishes.i wish u too baby dust.

veena u will surely go back to india to visit ur parents ,relatives and friends with baby in ur arms.i know how it feels..but things will change for better.
u take care brave girl.
lots of love to u veena
glad to have made some friends like u over here.
sonia