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hi frnds
i want to know if my marriage is over or still space for improvement .
1. We fight 90% of the time we r together .
2. no satisfaction in physical intimacy for the past 2 yrs. infact frequency of s-- going extremely down.
3. hubby turning \";mummy's boy\";.
4. no decent / pleasureable outing.
5. one baby the only linking btwn us.

help i really need it.
S M replied. First of all ,I do not feel that any relation ends.There is no problem in this world that cannot be solved.

Why have you started fighting all of a sudden ,was it after your baby was born or has it been like this right from your marriage.

Is it your mil who is causing the problem????


if she is then I think it is time for you guys to move out of the house as fast as possible.

Why don't you try asking your husband one day \";What is wrong with us,why do we fight soooo much\";.It can actually stump him.It might also be an opening to sorting out your problems,maybe ask him when he is in one of his good moods.Ask him if you could talk to him without both of you ending up in a fight,b'coz it is time to talk about you two.

Listen to what he has to say,don't hear I mean really listen ,do not get agitated when he points out your mistakes,tell him fine you are going to work on it,ask him if it is ok to tell him his mistakes and then point out his mistakes gently.

Try sorting the problem out together.

You have to communicate no matter what don't stop talking ,it kind of suddenly freezes out the relationship.


If you can keep the baby with your MIL asking her to take care ,go out for a Movie and then dinner.Ask her sweetly.

Try to please your husband by (If you are not with your in laws)calling over your in-laws to dinner,lunch.

I know it is difficult to act but you got to do it.

I know and am aware of how mil's take control and try to ruin your life ,its insecurity.

I don't know if I have been of help but All the Best ,hope everything works out fine for you.