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hi friend
thanks 4 reading my message..well my problem is that i m 5 months pregnant living in US with my husband..me and my husband has decided that i'll b going 2 india for my delivery..since we don't have anybody to care over here,now my problem is that .. friends i'll b missing him a lot over there..he'll b any ways joining me 15 days before my due date..friends,i always think and cry thinking he'll b so much alone here..when he will back from office who will serve him..stuffs like that i hope i m not overeacting..like every female i m very attached to my husband..so i don't understand how will manage without him ..especially when i need him the maximum..i don't blame him also for that..kya kare naukri ka sawal hai can't leave like that..friends plz help me how should i manage my situation
thanks in advance
rani console replied. In my opinion there is no need to go to India.he can take a couple of weeks of vacation and be with you after delivery.and take leave whenever you want to go t hospital or so.and make some food and put it inzip lock bags and freeze it for after delivery use.and handling baby.....believe me it comes just like that after you see your little one.best of luck. silver replied. Be frank!
If ur hubby is such loving,He shd even more wonderful to his baby-to-born...Y he is not planning to give ur baby an advantage?

So,do some sacrifice and bear some problems but deliver only here in USA,when particulary u want his presence throughout pregnancy .
It's not that difficult to manage without someone's help. Dias replied. Hey Rani,
You can deliver here without any one's help.If he's such a wonderful hubby that u r worrying this much to leave him,He'll definitely can manage your delivery and things.If you have trust on him,Just deliver here.Don't miss this oppurtunity.

During my pregnancy , we both were confident that we can manage without help,But luckily my parents got visa and came for help...

So I advise you to don't miss to give ur baby a bigg gift (ie citizenship)

ok,If u have any probs, U can go...but go peacefully,He can live happily without u as he lived b4 ur marriage...N'joy ur pregnancy.
xyz replied. Hi,
Why don;t you have your baby in USA?.He or She will get citizenship immediately?!.Do you know that?.
why dont you bring someone here to help you?.
Being a US citizen would be very helpfull in many ways.
Ofcourse you do need someone with you after delivery,but I have a 3 year old and I live at US.When I delivered nobody was here to help me.My parents and inlaws were all busy with their other offsprings and their issues, ofcourse which were more important and emergency than mine.I don't blame them.
But if you still have to go then dont worry..ask him to call you everyday and chat everyday, food is not a problem in this country ..you know that!So I think you are over reacting.
You should be worried more about your own pregnancy and delivery.
take care.