Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Dearest friends,
I'm so glad I found this message board. When I'm so sad and miserable and feel crying on someone's shoulders, you are all there to support. I don't want to cry to my parents as I make them feel worse. So I thank each and every one of you from my heart for your consoling and encouring messages and prayers. I feel so much better after talking to you..yes it feels like I'm talking to you in person. When my test came out negative I came here to write my feelings.
These mood swings we have to face are aweful. On the day I took my test I was so mad and angry. The worst part, there was a mailer for some discounts from Babies'rus in my mailbox that day. I felt that was good omen but it wasn't.

Like you have said it is good to remain in a positive spirit as far as possible. But when I look at small babies or hold them, these pangs are so unbearable. When do we hold our own baby. Will a baby call me amma? I don't know the answers to these questions. Only HE knows whether it will come true and when. So we just have to pray and wait. We are hear to support each other and feel encouraged when we hear news from people like Anumita. Anyway, I'll just continue my treatment course. In fact, we are planning to go to India and try IVF as the last resort. 4 cycles of clomid, 4 cycles of IUI and now IVF. Hope it'll work out next time at least.
I'm sure each and every one of us in this board will soon have a baby. Let's just hope and try to be cheerful as much as possible. We will definetely have our lows and blues but let's try to be positive.

Love and baby dust to everyone.
Veena sonia replied. Dearest veena,
hope ur fine dear.Im so happy to see ur positive spirit. Veena there is delay but definately doesnt mean its HIS denial ...god is looking at us too. he will give u your wn baby.U will have somebody to call u amma. God s way of testing us.
I dont know why i was under impression all this while that u stay in india.
where do u stay? i hope the best for u.
love
sonia Sunshine replied. Hi Veena,

I'm glad you feel better now, and are feeling stronger. And i know where you're coming from. I too feel a little low, esp. when i hear about other girls. It is very hard for me... But i try to put my faith in HIM and HIS plans for me.
Stay cool. I'm praying for us all.
Love and baby dust to you too.
Always,
Sunshine