Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Depression sorrow and pain is a disease that will cause you more heart ache and make it more tough to attain your dreams. Now listen ladies, I want to tell you this wonderful quote, \";A man can be about as happy as he CHOOSES to be\";. So like happiness even sorrow and depression is choice, AND it's an UNHEALTHY choice.
You have to be very very positive, now matter how hard it gets to be that way.
We all know what the other is going through coz we are sensitive, strong women. And we are here to share, care, bear, learn, teach and be there.
For all those of you who has a relative who is pregnant, let me tell you, no one will understand more than that person what you are feeling. And what she is feeling or going through is also not easy. But there is a way to gain a blessing and that is by putting aside your grief and pain and sharing that person's happiness.
I know and can understand the pain of each and every single one of you. But please remember, that by keeping your frame of mind positive you will make things healthier for your self and your body and that is only an added advantage in trying to concieve. There are times when it is just not possible. That's when we come in. To help the other pass through the phase a little more stronger.
Believe in God, HE knows what HE is doing, who are we to question him or tell him whether he is right or wrong? Trust God's judgement. Thank him for your family, friends and of course US.
Let Him hold your hand and comfort you till it is time for you to be where you want to be.
Everything will be ok. And when you have bouncing healthy babies, you will look back on this day, and think... that was hard, but i crossed it.
You will cross it. When God gets you to it, HE'll bring you through it.
Be strong, be cool and be POSITIVE.
God bless.

With love always,
Sunshine.

viv replied. hi there..
i was a bit sad this morning en my mc started again after 2nd month of trying for a baby.. and feeling very miserable being far away from my loved ones.just went though ur message..which was quite soothing.. can u share any tips ..