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2006-04-11

Name: Vaishali Hi, I am 25 years old married gal with a son. My husband is good, loving (but very bad in expressing his love). But whenever he sees half naked girls in movies I will get angry easily and my thought will disturb sometime. It doesn't mean that i am insecure.. I am good looking girl as my hubby always says I have EGO about my beauty that i do not have.

Sometime i feel like shouting at him if he sees those women in T.V. I know that i am wrong and I shouldn't act like that. But still i cannot control whenever he watches those girls. ( i know that every movie got masala songs and those girls exposes themselves very much).... Do not know why such things are happening to me... I am crying lonely somtimes for my act.
My hubby suggested many times to correct myself... I am trying to.. but couldn't. :(( . I need some serious suggestion. How to correct myself. How to improve myself... I do not want myself to be a bad wife to my husband as I love him very much and he is my world. THANKS

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Hi, I am 25 years old married gal with a son. My husband is good, loving (but very bad in expressing his love). But whenever he sees half naked girls in movies I will get angry easily and my thought will disturb sometime. It doesn't mean that i am insecure.. I am good looking girl as my hubby always says I have EGO about my beauty that i do not have.

Sometime i feel like shouting at him if he sees those women in T.V. I know that i am wrong and I shouldn't act like that. But still i cannot control whenever he watches those girls. ( i know that every movie got masala songs and those girls exposes themselves very much).... Do not know why such things are happening to me... I am crying lonely somtimes for my act.
My hubby suggested many times to correct myself... I am trying to.. but couldn't. :(( . I need some serious suggestion. How to correct myself. How to improve myself... I do not want myself to be a bad wife to my husband as I love him very much and he is my world. THANKS hello. replied. Hey,
That is not good.Does not sound normal to get angry and yell at your husband when you see half naked girls n TV...
I think the problem lies in your relationship wiht your husband.
You have mentioned that your husband is very bad in expressing love..Guess that is the problem... since he never compliments your good looks, you get annoyed to see him stare at any other girl?!..shouting at your husband and crying is not going to help.
Hey, there is a big huge world outside your house...Stop being so obsessed with your thoughts about you, your husband and whether he thinks u r beautifull or not.
try to channelise your energy in some better ways.
World is not going to end if your husband watches a beautifull half naked girl and thin 'wow she is so sexy\";..
As long as he does not cheat on you, you are good to go.
Act mature,Take care of your son. Prema replied. Hi Vaishali,
Every woman reacts like this when they watch T.V with their husbands.Since the trend of movies is like this for many years it's not your fault.The movies are just like that.Since they do not show anything sexy about men our husbands are not getting irritated like us.Change the channel for sometime to avoid those scenes.

2006-04-12

Name: hello.
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That's not good.

Hey,
That is not good.Does not sound normal to get angry and yell at your husband when you see half naked girls n TV...
I think the problem lies in your relationship wiht your husband.
You have mentioned that your husband is very bad in expressing love..Guess that is the problem... since he never compliments your good looks, you get annoyed to see him stare at any other girl?!..shouting at your husband and crying is not going to help.
Hey, there is a big huge world outside your house...Stop being so obsessed with your thoughts about you, your husband and whether he thinks u r beautifull or not.
try to channelise your energy in some better ways.
World is not going to end if your husband watches a beautifull half naked girl and thin 'wow she is so sexy\";..
As long as he does not cheat on you, you are good to go.
Act mature,Take care of your son.

2006-04-12

Name: w
Subject:

well said !!! i liked ur reply

2006-04-12

Name: Prema
Subject:

avoid those scenes

Hi Vaishali,
Every woman reacts like this when they watch T.V with their husbands.Since the trend of movies is like this for many years it's not your fault.The movies are just like that.Since they do not show anything sexy about men our husbands are not getting irritated like us.Change the channel for sometime to avoid those scenes.

2006-04-12

Name: Hema
Subject:

Women feel that way

Women do feel that way uncomfortable when husbands watch T.V with those scenes.Even very adjustable and understanding wife feels little uncomfotable when husband watches those scenes.It's out of control.But here Vailshali's husband is behaving very normally and she should not get angry and can feel easy to watch T.V along with him.Why always women should get adjusted against her dislikes?Why can't men?

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