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Dear Friends,
I was married 2-year back. My husband is very caring,nice and handsome. I am facing a problem that my husband ejeculates very early. Therfore many a times i remain unsatisfied. I would like to know following querries :

1) What is normal time it should takes before ejeculation.
2) How I can contribute in delaying the process.

please reply. Ravi replied. Hi Seema & Leena! Ur problem may not be isolated one. I'm 35 and married for 8 yrs. I've over the time learnt by practice how to delay ejaculation. As u know, the most enjoyable thing on this earth is sex so why not enjoy it to the fullest. The normal time for a sexual act shd be not less than 30 min. That excludes foreplay. For the time being, u can try by telling ur hubby that he masturbates before he actually starts foreplay. Now look, he won't like to go for sex immediately after that but gradually cajole him into action. He will for sure take a longer time and u (the female partner) will certainly enjoy. In this case, the ejacualtion shall be delayed and the joy will be abound for both. Ok sisters, try this and I'll let u know 3-4 more techniques later when u tell me how the going was. Have a nice time.... Bye.. Renu replied. dear seema, it is the problem if u feel it more and more. Hence do not think too much about it. It will improve itself after some time as u both will be more and more experienced.
It happens. Alton beauty replied. It is the most common problem for the women to reach orgasm as fast as men. we cannot blame the men for ejaculating so quickly, coz it is easy for a man to get aroused by your very touch or smell or simply by seeing you naked in the bed. whereas women are not accustomed to that, women need to be carressed and touched in some sensitive parts. There are some solutions for the problem you mentioned.(1)Encourage him to touch you, carress you, hug and kiss you before he actually gets into the act.(2) Dont allow him to penetrate until you desperately feel that you want him inside.(3)Ask him to give you the orgasm before he could get one becoz it is hard for most of the couples to reach climax at the same point of time.
(4)If you are living in a place other than India you can get some self satisfying adult toys which are safe to use. LEENA replied. I am also experiencing the same problem since last 5-years since i am married.I also request some one who can help on this topic. We will also like to know the exercise, medicine or technics which can work over the problem. The person who had this type of problem and now has been cured and taken a control over the problem can guid us better. Please advice your experience as it may be problem for so many of us.
Please advice and suggest don't use vulgarity on the issue.