Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi Sonia,

Did you talk to your hubby on Valentine's day? Don't worry and try not to worry about everything. I can truly empathize with your situation. You are the brave one here on the board facing everything all alone. I wouldn't worry about using frozen sperms. Don't worry about society. all they do is ask you questions. You are not obliged to answer them and if you want to, you can tell them that science and technology have improved so much that you can do literally anything these days. The only two people who need to agree on this are you and your husband. Be courageous and bold.

I have finished my cycle. I had my IUI this week. So have to wait for two more weeks to know the results. Sonia, you know what, I feel like losing hope and think my mind is going to accept the fact that I may not have a baby. I have stopped talking to all my cousins and going to any social gathering. Anyway let's hope for the best. Have left everything to HIM. If he thinks I deserve a baby he would give me one.

Good luck to you and baby dust to you!

Love,
Veena pari replied. hi!!
sorry to intrude, but i completely agree with u on the issue of frozen sperms!
and of course u do deserve a baby!! that question doesnt even arise, given the fact tat people who leave their babies by the roadside after delivery, have them!! and if they deserve to have a baby, we most certainly do!!
i too dont like going to social gatherings for the same reason!!
please dont lose hope!! I wish u all that u wish for!! may ur wishes come true very soon!!
lots of love,
pari. Sonia replied. Dearest Veena
oh my god u did a iui cycle. i really really really keep my fingers crossed for u. i will pray to god for u specially. have patience dear. knowing what abrave girl u r i need not tell you ...but keep your spirits high.think positive . about good things. take maximum rest. dont eat heaty foods.
im expecting to hear good news. i will be happiest to hear about you....and about pari too.
im waiting just as eagerly as you r. good taht ur keeping your faith. of course u deserve it and HE will give you a sweet baby,and dont lose hopes.
i know how it is but still.
ok my sister is going to come and i want to wind up before that .
see u then . i will mail u again
my very very best wishes for u
lots of hugs