Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

hi, sonia!!
im ok dear!! got a bit busy with the valentines day preps and all...got a lot of surprizes from hubby and also gave him a few! but ya i enjoyed the day..how was urs?
so could u return the licence to the driver. dont worry too much about him...these people have better contacts than us. even if he doesnt get that licence, he'll get another one made for himself.
sonia, i think these docs are just that...docs who treat people for physical ailments...she may be a good fertility expert...but to be frank, i feel she is a fool as far as human emotions are concerned. she probably thought that with donor sperm the chances of conceiving will be more...
u know wot? my doc, though very sensitive, made me feel like i was some crazy person who was not able to get over her m/c!! i used to cry whenever i visited the hospital coz that was the same waiting area, same environment where i got to know that my baby was...well...dead!!! only after reading that book did i realize that im normal! it gives the detailed stories of 3 women who had m/c. (2 of them had multiple m/c). dont talk to her again! i feel shez really insensitive.
c'mon ur not a failure! i feel god is a failure in our cases...he could not give us wot we deserve!
cant u tell ur mil tat u just dont feel like going there coz of obvious reasons and ul be there as soon as u feel ok? im not very sure bout this suggestion but if u like it, u can give it a try. or else keep making some or the other excuses. i dont think there is anything more imp for us than happiness!
and yes, i want to try that suggestion but i have menses anywhere from 25th to 29th day of the cycle. how do i know when im going to ovulate? any suggestions? is the suggestion valid for people who have slightly irregular cycle like me?
hey, dont worry too much! u surely will have ur own (and ur hubby's) baby very soon! dont worry! trust me!! trust me...tat will happen very soon!
i feel freezing sperms is a good idea! ask veena how she did it! she must have had those social probs too! and then u r not the only one using that technique...have u talked to ur hubby bout that? see wot he says? if i were u, i would let society and its ideas go to hell!! wot has society given me? lot of questions bout when i m giving the so called 'good news'! lots of things to worry bout...to feel bad..to cry...and lots of reasons to curse the society around me...
sorry...i got carried away! dont want to impose my opinions on u...that is just wot i felt! sorry!!
love u lots!
pari. sonia replied. Hi pari

u had a wonderful valentine s day . that was lovely. u do need such breaks.

yes pari the suggestion is valid for people who have slightly irregular periods. and that much irregularity is no big deal.i hope what i had written was clear enough.if not the i can write it again.

See normally 14th to 16th day from the first day of your periods is when u ovulate.
but it depends on individual case
to be more precise u can go for USG if possible to monitor the cycle

or else use OPK or ovulation kit. i think its available in USA. i have seen lots of people on this board asking and using it and imp been successful.

so use the ovulation kit,
to get more info please ask Archie or somebody on this board. they have guided others on where u get it, what is it called and how to use it.
im sure they will help u out too.

soee dont waste this cycle. try to make maximun use.
ask and get help and follow it.
ok i think once again i repeat

4-5 days befor ovulation no relation...so that sperms get concentrated.
when u r just about to ovulate have relation for next 3days atleast 3-4 times a day.
then u r on your own.
hope u underst.
it might be lil taxing but kya kare?

maybe for this month u just ovulated. if that is so then keep this in mind for next month....amd get ur doubts cleared and be prepared if required.


pari what ur saying is right . even i wish to tell my in laws straight. but u know how it will be if i open my mouth.
maybe they r so engrossed in their happiness that they dont realise my sorrow.
ya i am thinking of frozen sperms....if i dont get lucky this time around.
ok pari
i have to go now. will write to u soon
bye
love
whynot replied. Hi pari,
I agree with u here. U are such a gentle woman. Hope god gives u ten times the joy u lost. Not 10 babies(hehehehe). But healthy,cute baby and no more ailments thru' pregnancy, at the time of birth and after.
Good luck.
Sonia.............dont stress out. I know ur other half is away. Its difficult to be without them. Try some hobbies if u have.
Good luck.