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Trying since long:I am depressed
2005-02-15
Name: Supriya



I am 33 now and my husband is 31
Well we are trying for a baby from last 4 yrs now, we got married in 2001.
Well we got our test done so there was a problem in his semen count, it was quite low.
So he went throug a veregosee surgery since there was some disfuntion in his right testes.
Well this was done on August 2004
After that also his count increase which the doctors say is enough for pregnancy, but his semen always had ppus cells, so doc tor has given medicines on that.
Well now since it was getting late because of my age, doc decided to just go through my test again, my all previous test are normal.
But noe the doctor is saying that i am ovulating quite late ikn the month and also the follicels are not forming.
I have being going to a lot of mental stress from last 3 yrs, due to some family problems, also from last one and a half year i have being having so many health problems that i myself cant understand whats going on, so many medicines, in between i had a kidney stone problem, it was bad, then i was getting infected by viral fever every now and then, recently i got a spasm in my back, so was highly medicated on it, means i just dont understand what to do???
my todays question is, will i really conceive, my age factor, will it support me? my health problems are they the issue.
My Gynaec has suggested IVF is my body fit for it? means these questions really give me a lot of depression. i no my state of mind must be strong, but somehow a lack of motherhood is really killing me from inside.

what do i do ?, please suggest.

Thanks
Supriya

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2005-02-16
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Anonymous Name: Prerna
Subject:  Re



Supriya, i feel for u. We r in a similar situationa s well. We r goingthro our 1st IVf cycle.

We can email privately if you would like.

Let me know.
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2005-05-30
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Anonymous Name: neha
Subject:  male fertility



hi prerna ,

i have the same problem , my husband has low sperm count and low motility , out doctor has suggested for ivf treatment.i am feeling very sad , just want to know how was ur first cycle ?

many thanks

regards
neha
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2005-02-16
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Anonymous Name: anie
Subject:  suggestion



my hubby too had low sperm count and pus cells in the semen.My reports were normal.The doctor suggested us IUI, but because of pus cells the doctor conducted test for T.B. which came positive.the doc said that he will have to go for medication for 6-7 months and everything will be normal.So i suugest you to get your hubby tested for T.B.
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