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Hi ! These days I feel so depressed. Problem is my hubby has a very hectic busy schedule due to his excessive work load. He goes in the morning and has to work for almost 13-14 hrs. The problem is that after working so hard, so late he sometimes goes to drop his junior home.

Here I feel that when he's already so late, he should not waste his time leaving somebody home. But he says it's due to humanatarian grounds he leaves his junior so that life becomes easy for them (long bus routes).

I feel so upset. I tired to discuss with him but in vain. He gets all the more angry that I've become so selfish. We've 2 small kids.

Otherwise he loves me a lot. I do trust him for everything. But how do I make him understand that the people who join office MUST make there own arrangements. It's ok for a day or two but here it's a routine whenever he's working late.

Hope to get some good solutions from all you friends. priti replied. Hi,

I can understand how frustating that can be ..U wait the entire day to see him, talk to him and spend time with him ...so I know its irritating. Even I had some similar issues ...I talked abt it to my hubby and luckily he realised it and stopped dropping ppl home.

I suggest u talk to him again ..U tell him how eagerly kids are waiting to see him at the door , may be then he will change his mind. Mita replied. I know its very frustrating to make your spouse understand your point of view. But the same applies to him too, dear. Try to place him in his junior's shoes and you would've have thanked his boss for being to considerate!!Maybe your husband feels responsible and is going out of his way to help his junior.Why don't you try and work out a deal with your husband about dropping his junior - like twice a month or so. Or ask him to suggest the HR dept of his company to arrange transportation for late-goers.
All the best! RajHbd replied. Mita ji,
I think u should not interfere in his professional life. B'coz professional people set there targets and aims to make there as well as there family's life comfortable. to achieve these goals they usually work hard and as a wife u sud support him.

Hope u are getting good time from your husband on weekends.

All the best