Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Pari ....how r things going? ya just hoping u r fine. dont get too stressed out. things will work out fine for u . Just give it some time. dont feel down.u will be blessed soon. about mood swings its ok.. i too face same somedays i just want to keep lying down doing nothing. but kya kare.
cheer up dear !
make friends .as i said earlier also. they will help u keep occupied. i have made few in my buliding( of course who r not inquisitive about our good news)and we go out , meet up and that really helps.
bye pari
write soom whenever u get comfy
sonia replied. Pari just wanted to tell u that ...this month 5 days before your ovulation dont have sex. ( u said u do iy alternate days. stop that)let the sperms get concentrated . if u do it alternate day the count falls little.
hence abstain for 4-5 days then fron your ovulation date make love atleast 2-3 times for next 3days,
then ur on your own to enjoy. that will increase the chance to conceive,
u can ckeck this with archie or somebody on this board and see what they say sonia replied. Hey Pari.. felt so nice to read your mail. Im not just saying your wait is nearing an end.....im feeling it that way. it has to be. all good people shud get good things!!!
Yeasterday was again on of those blue days for me. Went to the doc!!!everything is fine but i was feeling very upset and depressed...dont know why. actually im afraid ..cos i wonder how long i will have to wait??? what if it doesnt happen this time too?????/ then try next year only.everybody elses kids will be grown up...and i will be still just trying...to which there seems no end.so many ill thoughts come to mind all together that it gets difficultto control the emotions....to add up to the bad things one auto dashed into my car frm behind on the highway when i was driving to the doc. And i took away his license. then after few meters i waited for him ..as i wanted to give it back( since the poor fellow wont have money to pay me or for his license and the damage was already made)but he didnt turn up. now i have it with me and whole day i was wondering now what to do with it? probably i will courier it if it has the address.
Met doc nandita as Dr pai was busy. she is asking me why dont i go for laprescopy also along with hystero as i will be on anaeshtsia ...it will just be a cut on my tummy. and wuld i want to go for donor sperm? that left me zapped pari....donor sperm means somebody elses baby....why?????? i asked her...is the sperm count so bad?...then she is saying no..no i was just asking. pari is this some kinda joke.what r these doc? i dont understand. then i told her that Dr pai had asked only for hystero so pl confirm it with him. later the assistant doc came saying that pai has said only hystero. next time i will see only dr pai and no one else...no matter how busy he is.
well the date is fixed for 22nd feb.
pari i havent visited my SIL for nearly a month now. my MIL had called the other day was saying long time that i havent come over. now what do i tell her??? how do i explain my jealousy or my miserable situation? when i face her i feel like a big failuer. its just like im finding some place to hide my face.
ysterday my hubby called. was asking if im angry with him.....what do i tell him?? and how do i explain it over teh phone.
ya u r right we r lucky in certain things....but what abt other things?
pari i think this is geeting too long. let me end . will talk to u later. hope i didnt bore u too much .but just wanted to share with u. pari replied. hi! sonia!
by mistake i responded to ur last message on the miscarriage board. m really feeling embarrassed now! it is so out of context there. people on that board must be thinking wot happened to me! ya..i too made a new friend in my building. she shifted recently and was feeling lonely! shez ok!
hey pl read my msg on the m/c board. there is no way i can delete it.
ok then,
keep me informed. u got the date?
love,
pari.