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Name: pari

hi, sonia!!
i was really worried! felt good after knowing that u r alrite! y didnt u reply for such a long time?
ya..i know things are quite unpredictable in merchant navy. my uncle is also working for that and doesnt know where he may be next month. 5 min after coming to our house (after overnight journey) he got a call and said that he had to leave immediately...and 5 min. after that he called up somebody and declared that he is staying! so its not ur husband's fault...u know y we feel so bad about our husband's behaviour? bcoz we dont say it all...
my husband had to talk something imp to his friend who's wife is my good 'pestering' friend in india. and i asked him he better call up from office so that i dont have to talk to the wife...after telling him that on 8 different occasions...he still called them up from home and naturally, i had to talk to my intruding friend and she asked her usual stupid question,'aur too suna, good news kab de rahi hai'? i felt very bad...but this time not bcoz she asked me that but bcoz i had been forced to talk to her bcoz of my hubby. later i told my husband all that i felt..and all that hurt me bcoz of his behaviour....and touch wood! i have been feeling better! (personally i feel husbands never learn but still things get better temporarily) just have a hearty talk with him when he comes home! and have patience....its difficult but not impossible!
just think...this time u have a good doc! once this wait is over...u will have a pregnancy to feel happy about!! and after some wait (of course u cant have it before 9 months) u will have ur own baby in ur arms!! u will surely forget all wait at that moment! wont u?
i got my feb menses...i dont know wot the discharge was...probably something one gets before menses...but its nothing to worry bcoz i got my menses. if i hadnt got it i would have been worried. and yes, if i happen to get pregnant...im sure i wont tell my family members even till i clear the first trimester. they got so worried on my first m/c. but il surely share it with u on this board. waiting for that only...
chal then,
take care and let me know of the date of surgery.
all the best for everything,
lots of love,
pari.

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