Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi there,
I just want to shower some positiveness in ur life. Please don't get depressed. I can understand what u feel. Many ppl try to conceive and get pregnant within no time. For some it is the other way. No one can be blamed. It is the destiny Who already has decided as to when things should happen to one and all.
I just want to tell u something. I tried for 11 months with no luck. Arhcie was the one who would encourage me whenever I am depressed. I waited for 8 months and when I could wait no longer, I askesd my doc what is the next step. She told me generally it take 6 months to one year for healthy couples to conceive. But she understood what i am going thru' and suggested for HSG. I underwent HSG last may. the doc said the tubes r clear, even my hubby went for semen analysis. That was fine. We were releived. The month after HSG I got pregnant. They say the chances of getting pregnant after HSG is more. i don't the know exact reason. I was the happiest person when I got pregnant, again it was shattered, I had to undergo D&C as there was chromosomal abnormality in the foetal development. I was depressed, the doc aksed us to wait for 3 months, for emotional come back. After that we got pregnant my Gods grace. please do not lose hope. Everything happens for a reason. I believe in that. I am hoping by God's grace everything should go fine with me.
Please don't stress yourslf and be confident and try to conceive peacefully. Good luck. shyfana replied. Pls let me know about HSG. What's the procedure ? How much it costs? Is it painful?
Pls reply. whynot replied. dear smile,
i will certainly let u know my results.hoping to get good/positive results this time......after 3 IUI's, 2 IVF's and 2 ICSI's.
U take good care and be safe.
Bye.....whynot whynot replied. Vow....u r so sweet. U lifted up my hopes. I hope i get pregnant after the HSG.Well.....in my case the problem is male infertility. We might have to go ahead with donor sperm and i cannot find a suitable one. I am damn scared. I dont want my child to be white/blonde/blue eyes. My husband and I are fair. My dad,granny,cousins,aunt has blue eyes. So if my baby has blue eys thats ok. but dont want a white,blonde child. Hope u understand what i am saying.
Thanks a lot 4 ur support.
Good luck to u. U waiting to deliver or already have?