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Name: pari

hi, sonia!!
it feels so good to keep in touch with u!! i can say all that i feel and all that i want to say!! and it is really good news that u are feeling better!! when u feel good, i do too!
hey, i never felt anyone's preg by touching her tummy...i never asked anyone that...and i havent been very lucky with friends either. when i was preg (i say that once in every mail,dont i?), i told only one friend bout it and told her to keep it to herself coz that was only the first trimester and she told tat to everyone with whom she was in touch....i still hate her, yes, i hate her so much i can kill her, for that. bcoz after my m/c many people asked me 'i heard u are going to give us the good news soon'.
so u know, wot i have to say bout discussing ur private issues with ur friends...il say its a no-no. i mean, not bout urself, but surely bout ur husband...its good not to share with friends.
its ok...everyone has to wait for their own share of happiness. i bet no one is happy in this world...
hey, please dont do this, please dont refuse to talk to ur husband, dont make him feel guilty...maybe we dont understand them just as they dont understand us...maybe they feel more than we do...but they r men, so they dont show...
my husband loves kids more than i do..he is so patient with them, he holds them so tenderly and he is never scared to hold any baby (unlike me).
so i understand when he says he is desperate too...but he doesnt look like desperate...and i feel its better this way. think wot would happen if husbands also start behaving like we do...crying all the time over spilt milk...who will take care of other things then? its good that at least one person is able to keep his cool!
m having some strange discharge...hubby says i worry unnecessarily..but yes, i m worried.
chal then, take care,
lots of love,
pari.

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