Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi Sonia,

How are you? Don't worry about your dreams. Since your mind is just worrying about the baby, first thinking about conceiving, then about having a normal baby and that's reflected in your dreams. It is not reality and will definetely nothing bad will happen to your baby. You will have a cute healthy baby soon. I'm praying for all of us. One collegue of mine had a baby after 10 years. I was so happy for him. Just like Anumita, when we hear about people having babies after trying for so long it is gives so much hope.
Why do you go to astrologers.? they are just money making vultures. They know you are desperate and say some stupid things. Don't believe in them. Just pray to God. Remember that everything happens for a reason. When I got married my husband and i used to fight quite frequently over silly things. Now we have changed so much. He is so understanding and caring. So may be God wanted us to get to that state where we understand each other before giving us a baby. Also i was able to focus on my career. these are the things i'm consoling myself.

You will definetely have a healthy baby soon. don't worry. relax. Take someone with you when you go to the doctor. I'm worried when you come home all alone crying.
love,
veena Sonia replied. i veena ...hope u r doing fine.thanks for the concern . even my mom amd mil scolded me for going alone to the doc!!!!but i just wanted to go alone.anyway i didnt know he wud ask me to get operated immediately and the sonography wud reveal something else. ..but veena now my mom and dad have warned me not to go to the doc alone.
its very good that u r taking things in a very positive way.it is this attitude which will b helpful . ya veena i wont go to astrologers. and u r right abt the dream too....i guess im thinking too much. but for last couple of days im a bit better. less anxious. i hope this remains.
and tell abt u veena...what r u trying now. any tratment??.. veena thanks for praying .i wish the same to u too
love
sonia