Name: kamal
dear friends
i need all of ur sugeation if having known about hernia and gerd reflux.
iam very much worried and tensed about my three and half year old daughter.
she is diagnosed for paraumblical hernia, which cannot be fine without surgery.
and also for gerd reflux because of which is not increasing weight height hairs overall growth is poor.
she vomits a lot, because of which her school dev,and social dev is getting affected.
she can not laugh or play much or cry because immediately after that she vomits
doc says that i should go for both reflux and hernia surgery at same time.
and other doc says i should only go for hernia surgery and not for reflux.
because the second one is more complicated and with med. only and by keeping precaution like sleeping with pillow, not immediately after food, eat less but frequent not eat spice and fried. not jump not cry etc.
iam confused, i feel guilty of stoping baby doing things which kids love to do, like playing laughing not eating at all icecreams and choclates.
iam puting so much restriction on my baby. then also she vomits in midnoght while sleeping.
please please help me with ur sugestions what should i do to make my childs life happy and normal
thanks a lot
kamal