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I WANT TO SHARE MY STORY

When i was small i used to be free to do everything and the worst part it not listning to my parents.

That way i used to fail in exams i was always used to be in the same class.

after that i came to realie my mistake and some how i complited my education

Now i got married and i hae one son who is 4 year old.

one side i am happy to have a good husband and son and another side i am not able to remember things like i am poor in maths i am not able to calculate fast i always feel bad i am a big failuer. Some time i feel like crying
some time i feel i am useless i am waste.

I want to be a perfet and intelegent women and show others i am not a dum person please try to help me how to solve my rememberence problem.

i am becomming dull day by day
please try to help me in this
Roja replied. this is normal. first of all, everybody have some kind of downfall. Not everybody is good at anything. everybody can't do everything but we can do something. Don't weep over something you can't do. Be happy with what you can do.
raise your kid without any problem. If you need help ask your husband to help you.
You have better things to worry about.

you will get over this. be happy replied. In additon to the above valuable comment just to lift up your spirit , have you heard about stimulating your right brain and left brain? That means if you are a right handed person, start using your left hand bit more often than before, it will stimulate the other side of brain ,it will start to have some effect in your analysis power and math power. Another thing I suggest your brain should be calm for you to remember more. if you get frustated and tensed it will only help you to forget what you normally can remember easily .If you still want to remember more things try to relate something to it or make a story out of it.( eg :Vatican -ryhming word : \";What I can do\"; so if you want to remember the capital of Rome think of What-I-can,then it comes automatically -Vatican) .Don't worry you still are doing a great job by being a great mom and a great Wife .What more can one ask for?... kshama replied. pls donot feel sad. everybody is not intellegent.if you are not good in studies u might b good in house work. try grooming your self keep the house in good condition travel around your town make new friends all this requires effort & your efforts will pay. try organising parties for your child go to your sons school meet teachers other parents just see the difference your child will love you more.