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I WANT TO SHARE MY STORY

When i was small i used to be free to do everything and the worst part it not listning to my parents.

That way i used to fail in exams i was always used to be in the same class.

after that i came to realie my mistake and some how i complited my education

Now i got married and i hae one son who is 4 year old.

one side i am happy to have a good husband and son and another side i am not able to remember things like i am poor in maths i am not able to calculate fast i always feel bad i am a big failuer. Some time i feel like crying
some time i feel i am useless i am waste.

I want to be a perfet and intelegent women and show others i am not a dum person please try to help me how to solve my rememberence problem.

i am becomming dull day by day
please try to help me in this
smita replied. My name is Smita and I am in New Delhi. Please take care and don't hassle yourself so much! friend replied. Relax,
Intelligence is not judged by the number of classes you have completed or whether you can calculate.
YOu might have suffered with some form of learning disability when you were small. It is very common but Indian parents have not been aware of those problems.
YOu are bringing up a son. you are taking care of your husband. And if you were not intelligent you would not manage any of these.
We all have our own gifts. YOu don't have to feel bad.
Why don't you watch news channels and become more aware of the outside world. you feel more competetnt once you are able to talk abt any topic.
If you feel you are forgetting things and this problem is increasing then maybe you should visit a specialist. There are a lot of reasons for memory related problems. If you feel the memory loss is just forgetfulness then you could try writing down the things you tend o forget, maintaining a diary etc. where you write down abt the minor details like where the keys are kept and when something imporatnt has to be done.
Out of experience I feel, that you need to visit a neurologist and get your self tested for some inherent problem you might have had related to memory and maybe that is one reason why you found it difficult to get through school as you were unable to remember. This is just a theory. A specialist may help you more.
But one thing is for sure, any woman who is manging a child and husband is not dumb!