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Womens Issues:husband's behaviour
2006-01-11
Name: Tony S



Hi all,
My husband is a nice guy. He loves me but wants to make love almost everyday. SOmetimes I am tired or I dont have the mood and if I say not now or not today, he becomes very much upset. In some cases he becomes violent and tries to hit me when we are talking about some other topic. He basically reacts to other situations v badly. I am v. upset because of his 'sex-on-demand' behaviour. But if i give in to his demands all the time then he is v loving & nice to me. Do u all girls face similar problems ? Pl. advise. We are married for 8 yrs and have 2 wonderful kids
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2006-02-09
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Anonymous Name: Amit
Subject:  Try oyt another way



When he is in a good mood try saying everyday sex is killing you making you tired you cannot go out you don't enjoy sex ..not able to cook as stomach was paining ..this might give indications to him that everyday sex spoils other enjoyments
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2006-01-13
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Anonymous Name: Roja
Subject:  women are not toys



Hi tony,
I have learned in psychology that as guys grow older and more responsible, they have more urge for sex on regular basis. some guys want sex to take their stress off and some for love.
This might also bring problems in your love life. But, you are not a toy. you have to let him know that you are not feeling good at times. you should share your feelings when he is in a good mood. try to talk to him about your feelings.

Best of luck.
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2006-01-15
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Anonymous Name: Tony S
Subject:  husbands behaviour



Thanx Roja for your valuable advice. But I have tried to talk to him when he is in a good mood also. he just says that his sex appetite is more than mine. So i guess so I have to accept it. Because if i refuse him even once he feels totally rejected and reacts v. badly. So all this while I have tried to be more interested in love making and I even got a tubectomy done because I know about his appetite. But that fear in my min is always there - fear of making him angry if I refuse. I really dont thing he can take my refusal as just a refusal and not a rejection.
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