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Name: sahi

hi...i have been reading these messages for the past few months and finally decided tht i should opt for help frm u guys also when ever i have a prob & if i write it down i always feel light after it.......anyways i live wid my hubby my daughter, MIl & Sil. My SIL is 19 year old nd doesnt not goto college.....i am a working mother nd my MIL also works on & off so mostly my daughter stays wid my SIL.....thts not a problem atall as she luvss my daughter but the prob is tht she always shows to me tht she is doing a bigg time obligation on me in taking care of my daughter......whtever i talk to my hubby or my parents she tries to listen all of it and tell word to word to my MIL(when she is away at work).....sometimes i & my hubby fights in a jovial manner....just a light argument nd strt laughing but she portrays in front of my inlaws tht how baddly i was treating him.....if i tell my hubby to tell her abt all dis drama of her.....he says got 2 talk but i cant coz she takes care of my daughter when i am away at work so i dun want ki woh mera anger meri beti pe nikale...so i got to be her yes LADY.......my mil luvs her daughter a lotttt so she cant see ny wrong she does....nd she keeps filling my MILS ears too against me tht how badly i was treating my hubby....which is very irritating.......i want to be a gudd bahu but wanna teach a lesson to my MIL & SIL and dunno want my hubby to get involved coz if he says nything they still think tht he is taking my side nd ignoring his family....and i am making him do like this sooo more baddd for me....PLEASE help me but i wanna get helped in a peaceful manner....coz i luv my family

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