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Hi, I am married for the last seven years with two kids one four and the second one two. I have been meeting so called my cousin and we have been having affair for the last two years and I had gone for abortion twice . We tried getting out of this scene several times but patch up after a while as we cannot get away .We were almost caught by our family members once inside our bathroom.I love him and his company as he is loving and good at every aspect. Anyway to keep out of this trouble as both of us are almost 30 yrs old. Hi replied. Think a while if ur husband does the same to u having two kids. This is ur life, people will have fun and leave the floor when they are caught. U r married. Be sincere and true to ur husband atleast from today. ani replied. hi,
i cant agree with u. if ur cousin cares for u, let him show only love and affection and not more than that. how can u cheat ur husband who has given u a good life and two beautiful kids. ur seven year life with ur husband doesnt have any meaning. if u really care for ur kids better stop doing all these and be true to ur life partner. r u not satisfied with ur husband? tell him if u have any problem with him. its better to talk with ur husband.be selfish in this matter. think only about ur family and not satisfying ur cousin. if ur kids come to know about this, its sure they'll not grow up good. they wont respect u any more.
so friend, better talk to ur cousin and tell him about ur concern for family. is ur cousin not married? better put a full stop for all these and think about ur family and the ways to bring up ur kids to a good position in life. best of luck. BJ replied. Hi Jayanthi,

It is not good for you coz in such type of relations, only loser is the woman. And if your husband come to know this, you can think of consequences. Is your cousin is also married? You wrote that your family members caught you both in the bathroom. It is surprising that they have not done anything. It is illegal for sure...and all know that, why you r asking ? If you think you can go with it...just do it yaar....have fun! and then don't think about legal or illegal.....not everyone gets opportunity!