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i've been married for over 5 years now. have a cutest little baby boy who is 18months old. my husband drinks almost everyday(doesn't get drunk everyday though) but atleast twice a week. and then smokes when he goes out with his frens.he has i don't know how many times told me that he'll quit smoking, but hasn't. how can i get him to stop these habits. i've almost tried everything on my end. but all he says is he'll quit one day. and i don't know when that one day will come.
any help would be appreciated Do research replied. Men are weak creatures and if his wife would be weaker then him then nothing is attained in life.
So be strong dear, Do research.. google your topic and you will find out that smoking,drinking can ruin your health faster than people think and even as much quickly as give him low count sperms so if you are trying to have another baby, it is not going to be the healthiest sperm.
Tell him that since he is being dumb and not listening to you, you dont care now but if he wants to live and see your child grow or have another kid and grow old healthy and not like other old people all sick and weak then it is his life. And just let it go. Tell him that he cant smoke or drink at home as you want to raise child well and dont think that if he does it at home you can atleast watch his drink limits. 18 months is a great deal to see and understand things.
Take matters in your own hands and if you cant dont blame anybody else.