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I am 25 and got married 3 months back. I have known my husband for over a year. I love him a lot and I know that even he loves me. But even after 3 months of our wedding, we have never had sex. On our first night, he told me that he was tired. But after that, it just continued in the same way. Initially there was a bit of hugging and kissing but now he has stopped even that.

Recently, when I was cleaning the house, I found few photos of his where in he was standing with a girl in bikinis. Later I got to know that they both had been trekking and that's when these photos were taken. We never talked about it after that. Also, I have noticed that he is addicted to porn websites. So I know that he is normal.

Only thing that confuses me is why he doesn't want to come to me for anything. I am totally shattered now and I see no meaning to my life. Please help.... krishna replied. Hi friend , I better say you tsop being with him..so when he is not good now how will youpredict in life? u cant know the days.. better u get a divorce u'll be healthy and happy..who knows he may have HIV also Sanya replied. Why don't you openly confront your husband and ask him what the problem is. Is is not normal that you have never had sex even once after marriage. Either he is not normal or he has someone else to satisfy his needs. If the case is the latter than why did he marry you in the first place. Only your husband can answer your questions and put you out of this misery.