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Do you know that all self sabotaging habits/behaviors are pre-programmed deep in the subconscious mind by old negative memories from your early life that remain very much alive within you? Do you know that such memories are responsible for all the negative thoughts, feelings and perceptions about yourself, others and the world around you that severely distort your connection to reality and most importantly hijack your conscious mind and the seat of your power, your freewill to make self directed choices, away from you? Do you know that unless you are able to somehow de-activate those memories and the self destructive programs they drive you will remain permanently enslaved to them for the rest of your life? Finally, do you know that the only effective way to de-activate those memories is to delete them once and for all? Want to learn more about why this is now possible?

To help make this more clear let' s take a simple but common example.

Let' s say a person was rejected at some point in their lives by a significant other, say a parent or a lover. The negative memory of the event invariably becomes stored within the mind and over time gets buried under many layers of other memories from their life history.

The memory in question therefore is driven \" underground\" or into the subconscious mind i.e. it ceases to be a constant and ever present theme in their consciousness as they attempt to move on with their life. The memory however doesn' t simply diminish in its significance or its effect on the person' s life.

Instead it generates, and serves as the \" evidence\" for, negative self beliefs such as: I' m unlovable, I' m inadequate, I' m unattractive, I' m a loser, I' m a failure, and so on. Such beliefs regularly surface into the conscious mind, attempt to influence the individual' s identity or self image and are the main driving force behind much of the self destructive behaviours one enacts.

These beliefs, or thoughts, seem to come out of nowhere thus leaving the individual feeling, out of control, vulnerable and like they are the \" truth\" about who and what the person represents. Sadly, these beliefs/thoughts actually only come from the memory and do not in any way reflect who the individual is and what they are capable of.

Another way of saying this is that the memories create \" hypnotic-like\" suggestions that send the individual into a trance like state that severely incapacitates them, often for life.

These \" suggestions\" can however be de-activated simply by erasing/deleting their source i.e. the negative emotions from memory which they are generated once and for all. When this is done in an effective manner it is much like closing down an old computer file from the operational memory of a computer it is gone forever with no trace and no further negative effects.

clarity of who they truly are and what they are capable of, they reclaim full control of their freewill choices thus progressively extinguishing old self destructive/ self sabotaging patterns, experience a great surge in self confidence, inner peace, empowerment, and resilience and much more.

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