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...and everyone on this board...wish u a very happy new year!! i wish u get all that u want this year!! esp. the one wish that's in our minds all the time!!
i really had a great vacation. but it ended with my menses starting. so vacation came to an end with a jolt. i was really hopeful this time. another disappointment. lets see wot the new year has in store for us!!
how r u sangeeta?its been really long since i got a message from u. u still visiting the miscarriage board? i wish u all the luck throughout the coming year and throughout ur life!! priya, wish u all the best for ur delivery. when is it due? and sonia, dont worry! i told u na, ul surely conceive this year...and have a healthy baby too!!
another one of my friends is preg. in fact all the people around me seem to be preg. its so disappointing. ive really waited a long long time...i dont remember i ever harmed anyone!! im really scared of trying again this month..i may fail once again. it was so painful...having sex wen we dont wish to bcoz we feel it may be my fertile period...sex is not beautiful anymore...its a liability...a means to achieve an end!!
will i ever be successful?
love to all of u,
pari. sonia replied. wish u a very happy new year. and thanks so much for ur suppoetive words.
And i wish the same for u too. baby dust to u.

Dont worry Pari, i understand all what ur feeling. Because i too feel the same way. I also think what harm have i done?
But i just cant figure out any reason

For gods sake dont be wsorried whilehaving sex. I know its difficult but for next few months try to have sex for enjoyment. just forget what is ur aim. Just do it for pleasure. And u might be surprised that it may work.
Ya i know how difficult it can be thta way. but strss can have negative hormonal effects. so just give this a try.

Just yesterday i visited a friend of mine who delivered a baby girl. she was so preety. but u know i justfelt that i was about to cry in front of everbody. But somehow i managed.U r right everybody seems to be getting prg and having babies except me.

Just wanted to share that few days back there was a msg on th eother board wherein it was said that 'the ladies on that board r always talking negative' u know i felt very bad . I dont know if that person was refering to our board.
But why peaple dont understand that one is not negative without a reason.If that person ever steps into our shoes they will know what hell r we going thru right now.I myself tried to be positive for last three years , but now its difficult. its the situation which is negative.And who ever might be sounding negative must suerly be with reason,.
If we would easily conceive wouldnt we be happy aand spread and share the happiness around.


Any ways pari lets begin the new year on a positive note hoping for the best. No dont take sex as liability. Enjoy being with ur hubby. and enjoy ur togetherness. See atleast we have got a loving partner. There r girls who r not able to find right partner. so what is their life?

love
sonia
NO STRESSING AND ONLY PLEASURE .....REMEMBER.I WANT U TO GIVE ME THE GOOD NEWS SOON. I M WAITINg
Priya replied. Pari
Hi and Happy New year has everything calmed down now? you were really busy during xmas hope you are well. You will get pregnant this year, enjoy yourself for now as when the baby is around you may not be able to spend quality time with your hubby.
I am due in july, july 20th i have a long time yet i amd in my 12th week from today.
Priyaxx