Planning a Baby  Discussion Forum

Hi Archie. Happy New Year ! Hope you remember me.Its nice to know that you are back from your holidays. Hope you enjoyed and how is Advait. I too came back from my holidays this week. You know Archie I did my IVF this time, but.....I failed. I'm really depressed and don't know what to do.Everything was so perfect the timing, treatment, support and help from my Parents, Sis and Loved ones and plus the relaxed atmosphere. It was done by one of India's best doctors but what to do I did not have luck this time. I really don't know what to do. Now its upto GOD and GOD Will only Bless Us. I really feel bad that my Parents, Sisters and Family are all so worried and we just pray that GOD Blesses us. Sorry that I wrote to you at the beginning but i felt like sharing it with someone and so wrote here. Anyways take care. pritty zinta replied. hi anamika,
its really terrible to read that abt ur faulier of ivf.i also really want to get preg and have healthy child. i m also depressed. just dont loos ur hope . re god is always there to help. thanx Anamika replied. Thanks Archie for your wishes. Hope GOD Blesses all of us with a Miracle. Archie replied. Dear Anamika,
I am sorry to note failure.
Hope God bless you with his miracle.
Archie Anamika replied. Thanks a lot Sonia and Veena for your kind words. How much ever I try to not divert my attention to other things this pain is always there at the back of my mind. I always feel like crying when I think about my Parents and Sisters. They are very concerned about the medicines and injections I take and the adverse affect it has on my health. I used to be fair but now due to the medicines I have become dark and also have put on weight. Even though I am at an advanced age I have decided to stop the treatments and only GOD will Bless us happily. Sonia ya it is I who has failed and no point in blaming anyone. Sonia I took treatment at Jaslok hospital and one of the best IVF doctors in India (Dr.Parikh). She is really one of the best. But its my bad luck that I did not make it. Anwyays Good Luck to you and Veena and others in this forum. GOD will definately Bless all of us in this year. Happy New Year to you all and Happiness Always. Veena replied. Hi Anamika,
I'm really sorry that the IVF did not work out this time. But don't lose hope. God will definetely bless us all with a baby soon. It is all for some reason that there is a delay.

I had my IUI the third time last month and was hoping for some good news this year and it didn't work out for us as well. The two weeks of waiting period after each cycle is the worst.

Anyway don't lose hope. Let's keep continuing with the treatment and leave the rest to God!

Love,
Veena sonia replied. Dear Anamika,

im writing to u again because ur msg brought back the tears to my eyes.To tell u the truth im dead worried. I want the ICSI to be a success atleast this time ..but dont know what to do.

Anyways u take care and please please dont get depressed sonia replied. Dear Anamika,

Read your message.......Im really very sorry that your IVF failed. Dont say u failed as u had said (I failed) .its the treatment that failed.


Understand Anamika that its a complex procedure and definately expensive. The implantation is very complex and cannot be monitered. Perhaps that sthe reson that the success rate is not very high. But a normal couple also stands a chance to conceive only 20 percent each cycle. so even their fertilisations may be going waste one never knows.

Have faith anamika. every thing will be alright. I know it easier said than done.........but im also going thru the same. Even i will go for IVF . I really dont know what god has in store for us.

Please dont lose heart and hope...because when everything fails and u go for this last option lots of hopes are pinned onto it.

Where did u take the treatrment from? who is your doctor? I Had started my last ICSI treatment and we stopped just half way. The pain and bitterness that i went thru i cant even express.This time around i will change the Doctor. Lets see what happens.

I would like to wish u a very happy new year. What happened was all in past year. this year we should look forward to some good happening. i will keep u in my prayers. May god bless you
love sonia