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2006-08-20

Name: remya subramanian help me anybody,
i and my husband used 2 quarrel infront of my son. even though i tried 2 not my hus is doing it , shouting vigorously,which can hear 2 neibhours also. which i donot like.can anybody give advice2 meimme. he is not a drinking person.but he canot hold the temper.help me friends

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help me anybody,
i and my husband used 2 quarrel infront of my son. even though i tried 2 not my hus is doing it , shouting vigorously,which can hear 2 neibhours also. which i donot like.can anybody give advice2 meimme. he is not a drinking person.but he canot hold the temper.help me friends samaj replied. i am back again remya .as i really feld bad after reading your mail.please dont ever punish a kid..he has all the rights..to enjoy his life with his parents
try out councelling....
try to find out the reasons as i said earlier...then the things can be worked out well
you says your husband shouts,,iam sure you also gives back ...
please avoid that ...i am not saying that you have to be quite ..see the change...when ever he starts ..keep away .take your baby n go out...
plan your day well ...
go out with your hubby may be a walk ..temple..etc etc ..
lastly remember ..some thing is there /which comes between you two.....be sincere n .sort out that..rather than punishing your kid......ask your husband to go thru this site....
or buy some good magazines nad amke him read.....
samaj replied. dear remya
i think there should be complete full stop to your fights..esp in front of the kids..its sad that being educated people we dont realise the impact on our kid.. he will be frieghted..emotionally upset and in later stage he might himself create such scenes in his life..are you really ready ..for all these...?
first of all you and your husband can solve your problem ..by talking alone in your room ..i feel both of you should behave as a responsible mature parents ....why dont you both think properly and solve your issues ..and raise your kid... its your duty !!
all the best ..
one more thing..why dont you write down all your fight reasons in a paper or may be in a mail .by the time you finish the letter you will be relaxed ..
def you need to re think baout your fights...and accordingly,,
drinking habbits...go for councelling
finannce-- try to find some job
please dont allow anyother person to enter n solve your issues... try it your self ..my dear................
all the best and i really pray god that may happiness falls on you n ayour family vvk replied. convince your husband to do the course on atr of living or reiki upto level 2 it will help

2006-09-27

Name: samaj
Subject:

fights

i am back again remya .as i really feld bad after reading your mail.please dont ever punish a kid..he has all the rights..to enjoy his life with his parents
try out councelling....
try to find out the reasons as i said earlier...then the things can be worked out well
you says your husband shouts,,iam sure you also gives back ...
please avoid that ...i am not saying that you have to be quite ..see the change...when ever he starts ..keep away .take your baby n go out...
plan your day well ...
go out with your hubby may be a walk ..temple..etc etc ..
lastly remember ..some thing is there /which comes between you two.....be sincere n .sort out that..rather than punishing your kid......ask your husband to go thru this site....
or buy some good magazines nad amke him read.....

2006-09-27

Name: samaj
Subject:

def no

dear remya
i think there should be complete full stop to your fights..esp in front of the kids..its sad that being educated people we dont realise the impact on our kid.. he will be frieghted..emotionally upset and in later stage he might himself create such scenes in his life..are you really ready ..for all these...?
first of all you and your husband can solve your problem ..by talking alone in your room ..i feel both of you should behave as a responsible mature parents ....why dont you both think properly and solve your issues ..and raise your kid... its your duty !!
all the best ..
one more thing..why dont you write down all your fight reasons in a paper or may be in a mail .by the time you finish the letter you will be relaxed ..
def you need to re think baout your fights...and accordingly,,
drinking habbits...go for councelling
finannce-- try to find some job
please dont allow anyother person to enter n solve your issues... try it your self ..my dear................
all the best and i really pray god that may happiness falls on you n ayour family

2006-09-11

Name: vvk
Subject:

art of living

convince your husband to do the course on atr of living or reiki upto level 2 it will help

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