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I felt my daughter madhuprabha would long for me since i have gone for delivery to mothers place at pondy. Where as my daughter at Selaiyur(Chennai). My husband Sivakumar takes care of my daughter. Now i am free i had my delivery on 14th boy child Surya Prabha. My daughter came to see us. But still there was no symtom from here. is she realy longs for me or My husband has given care. A replied. Hi Gandhimati,
From your message i think this is your question. You are saying you have gone for delivery to pondy. And ur husband was taking are of your elder d/o at chennai. After your delivery when ur elder d/o came with ur husband to see u and the baby she was not showing that she mised you. So your question is whether she is just happy wiht your husband and does not want you?
Am i correct?
If so then i would like to add that i know how much you would have missed her and wanted to see her love for u after a gap. But if she is happy you shud not worry, since its a good thing that you are gettting enough time for your new baby without having to think for you elder d/o. You should see many other older kids behave so bad and feel sad and insecured with the arrival of the new baby at home. So take this time and ease your job. But keep a friendly realtion with you d/o. Call her, hug her, ask and talk to her. Share wiht her some of the new baby' s small work, give her gifts too. And keep talking to her even on phone when she goes away to chenai . She is still small so might be wondering all this new kid' s scenario and while she is happy with her father she will miss you though she might not show it.
All the best! vvk replied. ur message is not clear at all. what is ur question?