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is it common to have attraction toward another man?, even though you are married?.i know it is not the right thing to do. seel replied. why cant you get attracted to somebody at any stage of your life? even if your husband has got those qualities you may still like those qualities in the other person. in fact your husband has nothing to do with your attraction.

only thing that marriage prevents is your having sex with that person. by getting married you simply take an oath that you wont surrender sexually to any other person other than your husband.

so dont think that you dont love your husband or you are at fault or anything like that. just dont break commmitment with your husband and that is it. you can even fantasise about him. no problems in that.

and another thing which angel is wrong is that... dont try to change your husband. please try to accept the people as they are. pratibha replied. Attraction is a strange thing. Just like angel said it can happen on many levels. In case you are feeling guilty and want to snap out of it, then reason yourself to things like \";oh! i always thought tall men are impressive and maybe that is why i feel attracted\"; or things like that. And then make yourself think of all the wonderful things you like in your husband.
Men get attracted to other women all the time. Women choose emotions and commitment over attraction. It is a generalization. Just to help you think about it. Angel* replied. attraction is not just physical. it could be mental or u just admire his personality. this is quite normal to the extent you do not act on this attraction.. let it pass. try and see what do u like about this man? is ur husband lacking that quality if so then try and bring that quality out in him.

love angel*